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I was being mean to my guy...how to make it up to him


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Greetings to everyone :)

Need a little advice...I have been working for 6 days a week for the past month and I am not getting much sleep. I was mean to my bf. I will admit, I was grumpy because I was tired and I really had a bad day. My guy ends up going home saying that I did not want him around. I love him dearly, been with him for some yrs now. We have a rocky relationship and I feel like a real b@@#h for it.

 

I got maybe 3 hrs a sleep the night before the incident, no more than 3 definitely because we were up talking on the phone until the wee hours of the morning. Is there anything I can do to convince him that I was just tired and I want him around?

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Why don't you tell him that you have been working 6 days a week for the past month and that you haven't been getting much sleep. That you were unnecessarily mean to him. That you were grumpy because you had a bad day. That you do want him around. That you love him dearly through the many years of your relationship. That you feel like a real b@@#h for what you did. And that you want to make it up to him.

 

If you have an understanding bf, he'll know what a lack of sleep can do to a person.

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Yeah- there is a way.

 

Tell him you've been under a bit of stress, took it out on him, and apologize for it:

 

"Look, I have been under a bit of stress, and I took it out on you when I shouldn't have. I owe you an apology for acting bitchy last night, you didn't deserve it".

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Wake him up with a bj tomorrow morning. That usually solves a lot of problems.

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Wake him up with a bj tomorrow morning. That usually solves a lot of problems.

 

Z job FTW!

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Wake him up with a bj tomorrow morning. That usually solves a lot of problems.

winner!

 

that along with the apology will work.

 

Oh and you know you made a mistake so from now on focus on not making the same mistake again. IE if you are tired let him know you are tired and cant hangout/talk on the phone instead of making his life miserable.

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