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Am I just a rebound?


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Ok, well here goes… I’ve been with my boyfriend for six months now and I’ve really started to obsess over he ex. Before we met he had been engaged to a woman in her thirties (he’s twenty one, but twenty at the time). They’d only been split up for three months when I met him. She broke up with him I should add, which also makes me wonder that he isn't over her. How can you possibly be over someone in that short amount of time? Am I just a rebound because that’s what I feel like a really stupid one.

 

I spoke to my boyfriend and he admitted when we first starting seeing each other before he asked me out he did wonder if I was a rebound, but then he sat down and said he really thought about it before asking me out and that he then knew I wasn’t and our relationship was the start of something new and fresh and not as the result of something from the past. But he also then admitted I was the first person he dated afterwards, despite talking to several other women before we met. He then said that he knew they weren’t what he wanted.

 

I am really concerned being the first person he dated afterwards.

 

Any views on this are welcome. Thank you for reading

 

Please note he was with his ex six months before he proposed and a further three years. He said at first he was happy but towards the end things just didn’t feel right

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