shayla Posted July 7, 2011 Posted July 7, 2011 (edited) I got an email from my boyfriend, not ex, but my boyfriend telling me that we should get on with our lives.....about ten minutes after I called and confronted him because a woman on his FB friends list who he swore he barely knew happily announced that he had put a ring on her finger and they were getting married in three months. 3 years in a relationshiip with him and that was how he broke up with me. The only thing I heard from him since is him sending me an email with a virus attached right after my father died in April of this year. I would have deleted it without opening it, but I foolishly thought it was condolences. I still cannot believe how cold and ugly this was, when he could have easily told me at any time during the months before all this. But he chose to lie and string me along, and if I had not said anything, he would have never broken up with me. That is what pissed me off most of all. Edited July 7, 2011 by shayla I can't spell lol
Jdw_Icequeen Posted July 7, 2011 Posted July 7, 2011 (edited) Thanx Mack, I also liked your post... My ex left a note on my pillow, while I was in the shower and snuck out lol.. First saying we should take a break. Then I found constant txts and phones calls to some random chick he worked with of course he tried to say they were just friends. Few months later he was whoring around with randoms and now he is finally with the chick he left me for LOL.. Yea I knew it from th beginning that he was trying to get in her panties and no I don't think it will last. He is great at sweeping his emotions and problems under the rug. He certainly never tried to fix ours. I like your post because I don't feel like jumping around right now. Just spending time with my kids and doing my own thing. Somtimes dates here and there but I don't want a relationship. He has tried to kind of make me feel worthless for that by things he has said to me about getting a new man to forget him lol.. What he dosen't realize isn't I don't need a new man to realize what a total loser he is and will always be. I am happy now though that he is a coward because he will never face me for anything he has done and I am glad to keep him where he belongs. In non exsistence. Edited July 7, 2011 by Jdw_Icequeen
Geya Posted July 7, 2011 Posted July 7, 2011 Mine was also terrible... he did it by disappearing LOL, and what's funny is that I had him on BBM, so I could see him changing his statuses and dps but not replying to my messages, actually now whne I think about it it's friggin hilarious hahahhaha, who DOES that? What a coward grow some %#$%#... I can't believe I was with such an empty loser
TheHurtProcess Posted July 7, 2011 Posted July 7, 2011 Boy do I know the feeling. My ex decided to leave everything to a message via Facebook. No phone call. Nothing face to face. I knew that she'd have problems the moment she saw my face and/or heard my voice. But, come on a FB message? That's cowardice if I've ever seen it. What a joke. Thanks fr the post Mack... You are definitely right.
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