crazylife903 Posted June 5, 2011 Posted June 5, 2011 i have known this man for years. he has ALWAYS been after me. we hooked up a couple times in the past, we have a great time out. he calls and texts all the time. we talk about a lot and everything. he is always making plans with me, and then not showing up. then texts me the next day not mentioning it and continuing like nothing happened. and then at the end of damn near every call or texting conversation he says "love you always have" but then i invite him over my house and he don't show? he says i drive him crazy and he wants me to be with him and that he doesn't share, but then blows me off to go elsewhere with who knows. why is this a$$ blowing me off all the time, with thousands of texts and hundreds of calls every months...and 9 times out of 10 he initiates all contact not me. what do i do?
Author crazylife903 Posted June 5, 2011 Author Posted June 5, 2011 FYI: 1 second after posting this my daily horoscope was texted to me, it says: If u need to get out of an unproductive relationship, just tell it like it is. enough said i guess! please HELP
GG3 Posted June 5, 2011 Posted June 5, 2011 Would love to have a private investigator to follow this dude to find out what he does when he doesn't show. You already know he's a dud. What's stopping you from pulling the plug? The mystery?
LShasleftmeindespair Posted June 5, 2011 Posted June 5, 2011 That's what you get for going with Duracell instead of Energizer. Have you actually talked about this face to face?
Mimi99 Posted June 5, 2011 Posted June 5, 2011 I went out on 2 dates with a guy like him. He would tell me that he's so attracted to me and that he thinks I'm cool. And that we should make time to see each other more often. I thought he was really into me. Anyway, he made dates with me, but never followed through. I then got tired of it and stopped making plans with him. He calls me from time to time, even though I haven't seen him in a few months. Why? I have no idea!!! So, there are guys like that who just like to toy with women that way. I wouldn't take him seriously. Play back and have fun with it, if you're interested. I don't blame you for being confused by his actions.
Lucky_One Posted June 5, 2011 Posted June 5, 2011 My opinion? He treats you with such disrespect because you have shown him clearly that he can treat you like crap and you will still have sex with him. He calls you after blowing you off and you STILL ask him to come over again? Some guys are after all they can get, with as little effort as possible. This is one of them. You are giving him all he wants and needs, and all he needs to mouth is "Love you, always have" and you believe him. Why would you believe that he loves you, when you obviously can't believe his words of acceptance to an invite to your house?
Author crazylife903 Posted June 5, 2011 Author Posted June 5, 2011 as for sex with him, i said we hooked up in the past..haven't had sex w/him for 6 years! believe it or not. he's a loser and all talk. i know...
Author crazylife903 Posted June 6, 2011 Author Posted June 6, 2011 That's what you get for going with Duracell instead of Energizer. Have you actually talked about this face to face? i texted him today after i ignored his texts all day: i dont have time to keep being blown off. he responded ok. i then texted do you even feel bad? no response yet
Ouroboros Posted June 6, 2011 Posted June 6, 2011 i then texted do you even feel bad? no response yet How is he suppose to respond to that? Those are the kind of words one uses when they want to pick a fight. You are trying to shame him and there is no good response to it except no response.
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