rohen Posted June 5, 2011 Posted June 5, 2011 So i told this girl I loved her before I really knew her (I had asked her out previously and the first time it was a hard to get yes, then just wrong timing for the other times), I also wrote her a poem that came from the bottom of my heart that basically said i'm crazy about you, and last but not least, asked her if she had a girlfriend (because her Facebook profile said interested in men and women) and it turns out she doesn't have one... and thus not into girls. I'm really really crazy about her and I don't want to give up just yet. How in the hell do I undo all this???
Lilmisus Posted June 5, 2011 Posted June 5, 2011 I'm confused. - Are you a girl, and is that why you asked if she had a girlfriend? Is she indeed not interested in girls if that's the case? - Did you send the poem? - What mistake do you want to undo? - Why, if you've tried a few times already, have already confessed your "love" are you still going after her? Has she not given you a solid "no" or "yes" yet?
Author rohen Posted June 5, 2011 Author Posted June 5, 2011 Im a guy, on her FB profile it says interested in men and women - I thought she was bisexual. Shes not interested in chicks I made a mistake assuming that she was based on her FB. I gave her the poem. Well I feel like I came on too strong and assumed she was BI lol. No she hasn't given me a solid yes or no. I just wanna get to know her, she hasn't given me the chance too, she hasn't given me a definite yes im interested or no im not interested.
Lilmisus Posted June 5, 2011 Posted June 5, 2011 Ahh, okay. Well, if I were you at this point in time, I'd back off. Considering that she hasn't said "no" to you yet, isn't a reason to not do so. Though you want to get to know her better, she's not giving you the solid "yes" that she should be giving you in order to let you know that she's interested. There may be a reason for it..or she may be trying to make up her mind. Either way..absence makes the heart grow fonder, and I think that if you backed off, gave her some space and time to consider your feelings and consider dating you, then she may come around. If she doesn't..then at least you've backed yourself up enough to where you can start considering (and maybe going after) other girls who may actually be interested in you (which..she doesn't seem to be).
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