Kronzsw Posted June 4, 2011 Posted June 4, 2011 My girlfriend of 5 years broke up with me about a month ago we have two kids and a home together. It's really hard for me to move on and she's not giving me feed back on what she wants to do. What happen was that one day she told me that she was not in love with me any more that she is always gonna love me but that at the moment she wasn't in love with me. We have know each other for years we where friends long before our relationship. After talking to her we agreed that somewhere down the line we had lost our friendship. So we dicided to talk and try and get our friendship back. Through out this time I start to notice that she was talking to some other guy so I confronted her about it and she told me that he was just a friend. I had doubts but I gave her the benefit of the doubt. Then one day she tells me she is going to work and I think nothing of it come to find out she did not go to work and actually went out with this "friend" at this point I am enraged and ready to move on. I checked her phone records and it turns out that she has been talking to him for about 2 months before she broke up with me. I confront her about it she told me that she didn't tell me that she was going out because she was scared of my reaction witch is understandable but not an acceptable excuse. I told her that if she was gonna see other people she can forget about trying to work it out. She tells me that he's just a friend and nothing else then she throws a curve ball at me and tells me that she realized that she is still in love wih me and that she never ment to hurt me and that I'm the only guy for her. I asked her if she cheated on me and she said that she never has. I love this girl she's the mother of my children and at one point she was my beat friend. We talked And decided to keep tying to work it out. We start going out to lunch, dinner, even start having date nights. She tells me that she wants to get back with me but doesn't want to rush it. Over the next week or so I start to monitor her phones call log and realize she still talks to this "friend" I decide to get to the bottom of this and I give this guy a call. He tells me that there is nothing going on and they are just tAlking. I ask as friends? And he says we are talking trying to get to know each other it becomes clear that he has is motive. So I call her and tell her how he feels about her and she says that she never seen him as more than a friend and that she will stop talking to him. Now she hasn't talked to him and we are continuing to work things out. One day I try to surprise her at work by picking her up when she gets off and she flips out on me an tells me to give her space. I told her what does she mean by space and she said she needs time for her self. I haven't called her and I don't go out off my way to see her we only talk about the kids and she doesn't call me other than to tell me how the kids are. It's been about 4 days since I started to give her space and she has gotten less efectionite with me. Now I'm starting to think that maybe it's just not working and I'm starting to lose feelings for her because it's taking so long for her to come around. If I ask her if she love me she says yes. It just kills me that I can't get a kiss or anything because shell pull away. I'm really confused and any input would be greatly appreciated.
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