How2Love Posted June 4, 2011 Posted June 4, 2011 Hello Everyone, I am new to this and need some advice. I already know the answers to my questions but like anyone in love or going through a heart break, u cant take your own advice. I am hysterically crying as I am writing this and in beyond pain. I met a guy in February through his brother who I have been friends with since 6th grade. We hit it off right away. The very first night he came out and said he has a baby on the way but the baby mama and him arent together. To make a long story short we continue on dating and he is still living with her bc he doesnt have a car or job. I have been lying to myself these past months and supporting him. We are together pretty much everyday. However, he recently had the baby and is going back and forth with his baby mama while im by his side. She recently got a restraining order against him and they still are talking. Last night is the reason for my title: His brother and sister (the sister and his baby mama r best friends and they hate me) were having a joint bday bash. His sister told him i cant come bc she would fight me or get me kicked out. he said if I came that would be distrespectful and he would stop talking to me. He ended up leaving with me and my girlfriend and before he met with his brothers. We got drinks. I paid for him as usual and bc my card did not go through he said "HOW CAN U COME TO THE CLUB WITH NO MONEY! IM LEAVING!" And as soon as my card worked he was fine. He leaves me to go to the club and he comes back and demands 20 dollars. He says go give me 20 dollars and im done with you after this. He made me feel so utterly worthless and like a hooker. All to go see his baby mama or support his drug habit. He left and never called me. I woke up hysterical this morning bc i see him and his baby mama are friends on facebook again and she post a pix of the both of them together. I wrote him a letter and all he wrote back was "OK" I know my #1 answer would be "His loss or he is a loser" It kills me that someone can be done with me so easily. Just need some clarity.
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