SxB Posted June 7, 2011 Posted June 7, 2011 BOTH of you can't be happy all by yourselves. She's a gold digger, you're codependent too. I guarantee you would be able to let her go and find some one else who is single if you had some better self esteem. You wouldn't be desperate. That "first real love" sh*it you're talking is going to cost you. You're just pussy whipped. You're ****ing over a pimp, I give you that, however. "I'd never do to her what he does to her, neglect & taking for granted." Ohh yeah, poor her, let's all say a prayer for her.
Author caring guy Posted June 7, 2011 Author Posted June 7, 2011 Thanks for you inputs, i'll see how it goes!!! I'm obviously going with my heart, not my brain! & she's said the same too!! ComputerJock _ abso.....ing lutely!! she's the love of my life!! 2nd chances don't come along everyday & if it don't work, i know what i will lose & she knows what she will!! We are very close!! Everyday! John Michael Kane, she wants me in her life, we only live once & i've loved & lost & regretted, not anymore! SxB, she's a gold digger & i'm skint!, makes sense! I'm not desperate, i'm fine alone thanks!!! If it ****s up, so be it!! I did it my way! btw, her kid calls me dad!!
TheLawmaker Posted June 7, 2011 Posted June 7, 2011 Your story is not unique. I have had oneitises before. But this story is pretty bad. Bottom line is, you gotta let her go. She is not the girl of your dreams; if she was, she would be with you. Since she isn't, she's not meant for you. Move on.
Memphis Raines Posted June 7, 2011 Posted June 7, 2011 I'm single now, but she is unhappily married but of course she is:rolleyes: I feel bad in a way, but i love this girl, she is of my dreams!! wow, you have high standards. the girl of your dreams is a cheater that gets bored with a marriage after only 2 years. I would never even do this with anyone apart from her! I know its a cliche, but the love of my life!! well do all you can to break up her marriage then. then you can marry her. and after a couple years when she gets bored with having sex with you, she'll be "unhappy in her marriage" again. She feels odd about sneaking about why? if she is unhappily married, then whats to feel odd about. ah, could it be she isn't all that unhappy and just likes a little strange from time to time? I'm due to visit her soon when he's away!! I can't wait.. but..!!! I'd never do to her what he does to her, neglect & taking for granted. and you know this how? oh, she told you right? Money is his way of showing love, not attention & affection. Awkward i know!! and she of course would want to be with you if you were a stockboy at the local Meijer? you are in love with a cheater. if you are successful in breaking up their marriage and you end up with her, you'll be on the receiving end of what she is doing to her husband now in no time. Ya I know, you're special:rolleyes:
Memphis Raines Posted June 7, 2011 Posted June 7, 2011 My principles with this girl are just to be with her!! She means so much to me, love of my life!! She was my 1st & its always been a distant dream to be with her that i never thought would happen!! But dreams come true sometimes!! your little head is doing the thinking for your big one.
Memphis Raines Posted June 7, 2011 Posted June 7, 2011 It will come in time,i'll bring it out & it's not doomed, i guess its difficult if nobody's seeing it through our eyes!! I just want to be with her! This stuff happens, people split, people cheat, i don't like it, but its her. We had only once a year contact for ages as i was with other partners & so was she, just the odd happy xmas or birthday & pokes on facebook! I guess we're just going with it at the moment, we will talk more soon, but its not like i'll see her in person for a few weeks.. I dunno, just i feel that feeling & never thought she would for me!!, like a fairytale for me too!! I'm sure you can understand my feeling, i just wish she was single even though you were together years ago, you are new and exciting to her
Memphis Raines Posted June 7, 2011 Posted June 7, 2011 It will come in time,i'll bring it out & it's not doomed, i guess its difficult if nobody's seeing it through our eyes!! I just want to be with her! This stuff happens, people split, people cheat, i don't like it, but its her. We had only once a year contact for ages as i was with other partners & so was she, just the odd happy xmas or birthday & pokes on facebook! I guess we're just going with it at the moment, we will talk more soon, but its not like i'll see her in person for a few weeks.. I dunno, just i feel that feeling & never thought she would for me!!, like a fairytale for me too!! I'm sure you can understand my feeling, i just wish she was single even though you were together years ago, you are new and exciting to her. if you end up with her, then there will come a time where you aren't new and exciting, and all the attention in the world you give her won't change one simple fact about someone like her..you aren't a new face to f***. So unless you can get plastic surgery every couple of years, or there are absolutely no kids around, then you aren't anything special here. ANY new guy can give her what she is missing. ANY other guy doesn't have the baggage of providing for her and her kids like her husband does. what you call neglect, I call responsibility to his family. So do what you can to break up their marriage so you can save her husband from her. then you can be nothing new and special in a few years. Then heaven help you when someone knew shows her even the most minute amount of attention. The thighs will part.
Memphis Raines Posted June 7, 2011 Posted June 7, 2011 btw, her kid calls me dad!! then you and her are mentally abusing her kids by allowing to think so. I'm beginning to think this is a POS troll post now. nobody can be this immature and ignorant
OldOnTheInside Posted June 7, 2011 Posted June 7, 2011 Well...good luck with that. I'm beginning to think this is a POS troll post now. nobody can be this immature and ignorant Sure they can.
Author caring guy Posted June 13, 2011 Author Posted June 13, 2011 She is unhappily married, but i scared of doing something her family may frown upon.. She has married the wrong person.. No, just any new guy can give her what she's been missing, it's me & her, we both wouldn't do this if it were any other person than her for me & me for her! I'm on minimum wage & have nothing what he does, he's a company director!! We have history & she knows whats important!! She'd rather live in the park on a bench with me & feel the love & attention & knowing she's thought about & appreciated! We've just spent the best 4 days together, the only thing is, we wanted more!! I'm in no rush!
Memphis Raines Posted June 28, 2011 Posted June 28, 2011 I'm on minimum wage & have nothing what he does, he's a company director!! We have history & she knows whats important!! She'd rather live in the park on a bench with me & feel the love & attention & knowing she's thought about & appreciated! well thats just it. while he is busy providing for her and his family, she is out with someone that has more time on his hands due to the lack of a career. she needs to decide what she wants. A man that can provide for her kids and take the sacrifices that come with that. Or a man that doesn't have any ambition but to mess around
Author caring guy Posted June 28, 2011 Author Posted June 28, 2011 Excuse me, i have a job, but also i give her the respect she deserves & don't spend my life in other parts of the world or out getting drunk with his mates!! He should've respected & appreciated what he has or lose it, which he may!!! Money can't buy love & he thinks it can!
strength-abounds Posted June 30, 2011 Posted June 30, 2011 It sounds like you have already made your mind up about destroying this marriage. It doesn't matter how you feel about this wife, your arrogant theories can never be legitimately rationalized. What you are doing is wrong on many different levels and it will come back to bite you on your a**. Good luck to you and the other man's WIFE.
TeeStar Posted June 30, 2011 Posted June 30, 2011 btw, her kid calls me dad!! That is just plain wrong thought you said you were both discreet!?
Memphis Raines Posted June 30, 2011 Posted June 30, 2011 (edited) Excuse me, i have a job but do you have any ambition to move beyond minimum wage? but also i give her the respect she deserves & don't spend my life in other parts of the world or out getting drunk with his mates!! and she shouldn't be a cheater. did it ever occur to you that he is the way he is because she has cheated before or didn't give him the kind of affection he deserved as someone who was providing for her and her kids? He should've respected & appreciated what he has or lose it, which he may!!! Money can't buy love & he thinks it can! not talking about money buying love. but the whole money isn't everything is a nice thought in never never land, but in the real world it takes money to provide for a family. so of course with your minimum wage job at the minimum of 8 hours a day, if you work 8 hours, can afford you to come home and not worry about much else except playstation and having sex. you sound young and know nothing about the pressures of real responsibility. so again, this is usually what happens in a world where one has to live up to his responsibilities as a provider for the family, and another has no ambition. And I also would bet the bank, that if you were ever in a long term relationship, that no matter how you felt in the beginning, that in the long haul, its never all roses and birdies as you think it is right now. So when you get into a long term committed relationship where you have other human beings to take care of, get back to us and tell us how thats working for you. It hard work to make a marriage with kids work, and someone with no ambition needs to pass judgement on those that have to live in that real world of having responsibilities. Edited June 30, 2011 by Memphis Raines
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