Legacy1 Posted June 4, 2011 Posted June 4, 2011 (edited) I was involved with a woman who is to be divorced. We dated for 3 months but we had our ups and downs as she is add/adhd and has kids and technically is still living in the same house as her soon to be ex spouse but until about 2 weeks ago something as dumb as arguing over if she was on facebook chat/online or not...she said she wasn't...I thought she was ignoring me and sent a message asking her if she was? I didn't text her in the morning as she is usually the first to contact...when she didn't I thought my suspicions were true...later that evening I contacted her and asked what were we doing...well of course she went off on me about making false accusations against her...and it ended saying she would contact me the next day...well the next day came and no contact so stupidly I blew up her phone with texts-(12) explaining myself and how it was a big misunderstanding and how sorry I was and if she could come over etc...yeah, it didn't turn out so well...4 days later she came over and we talked and she told me we were going to work on things and laid in bed and cuddled and kissed etc...well two days later she decided to break off all contact...or just give short text replies back saying she was busy got to go etc....now she won't even answer any of my texts....but still has me a friend on facebook and even has herself listed still in a relationship.. She even called me the other night to pick her up from the hospital as she was dealing with blood pressure issues...I went. We ended up hugging and sharing kisses and even had small talk before I said we better get her home. I sent her a text and she replied but after a 2nd or 3rd saying I hope she is alright and have a good day etc...nothing again. I am bummed, hurt and confused about the situation....I thought me going at 2 in the morning would show how much I really cared for her and so on! HELP! Just re-reading this showed me how much of a needy person I must have looked like...f'n bummed! What I would do to go back in time and erase that horrible day/night...I miss her so.. Edited June 4, 2011 by Legacy1
guccimane99 Posted June 4, 2011 Posted June 4, 2011 The only thing i could tell you is something you dont want to hear and that is go "No contact." Delete your facebook, delete her phone number and when she calls or texts dont answer. Let her feel miss you and realize what she has in front of her. I hope you decided to go "No Contact" not only for your feelings but so that you can get your head clear.
Author Legacy1 Posted June 4, 2011 Author Posted June 4, 2011 Thanks...I have decided today is the day of no contact with her but the question is do I let her know or not? I plan on deleting her from facebook as I know it would kill me if I saw her up to doing something with someone else if it ever came down to that etc....I just wish in a million years it never came to this decision...a million years! thanks again!
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