Gentlegirl Posted June 3, 2011 Posted June 3, 2011 How many of you have run into the x MM or MW long aafter the affair had finished. How did you feel? What did you do? NO, I am not planning on doing that but was just idly wondering as, xMM doesn't live that far away from me. Have a great weekend! Gentlegirl
jj33 Posted June 3, 2011 Posted June 3, 2011 I see him from time to time. It used to be awkward but over time it normalized and it is fine now. In fact we have developed a very close friendship again (not a romance a friendship). But that took several years. In the beginning it was awkward. I would acknowledge him if I absolutely had to and excuse myself. Its different for everyone.
waytogo Posted June 3, 2011 Posted June 3, 2011 How many of you have run into the x MM or MW long aafter the affair had finished. How did you feel? What did you do? NO, I am not planning on doing that but was just idly wondering as, xMM doesn't live that far away from me. Have a great weekend! Gentlegirl Because of some circumstances, xMM and I will cross paths here and there. It's actually not awkward for me. I still feel a sense of friendship (nothing else) when I see him. We did have a nice friendship pre-A but we blew that ride when we acted like spoiled, entitled children. We can't just go grab innocent lunch like the old days; but that's ok. When we are in the same places, we greet, wish the other well and move on to greeting others. It may be easier for me as I have no hard feelings or in love feelings toward him.
fooled once Posted June 4, 2011 Posted June 4, 2011 I have never seen him since I ended it. I have married and moved on. He tried for years to worm his way back into my life but I never allowed it.
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