Pfiend101 Posted June 3, 2011 Posted June 3, 2011 So I went with out with this girl from my apartments and my buddy. We got smashed at a bar down the street. We both blacked out the girl and I. We were making out all over each other. Took her home that was that. She sent me a text asking me to come over this morning and we cuddled/made out in her bed. It got to the point where we were ready to strip and get it on. However I just decided to makeout as I'm not sure what I want to do in this situation. I'm totally attracted to this girl I just dont know if shacking up with her is the best Idea as we live in the same apartments and everything. Thoughts please? I could pursue it further if I wanted assuming she isn't offended I didnt sleep with her. I'm just not sure what to do. Should I text her telling her I want to think things over?
Nexus One Posted June 3, 2011 Posted June 3, 2011 Why is it a problem that she lives in the same apartment building? Or do you mean the same apartment as in "the same living space"?
cerridwen Posted June 3, 2011 Posted June 3, 2011 So I went with out with this girl from my apartments and my buddy. We got smashed at a bar down the street. We both blacked out the girl and I. We were making out all over each other. Took her home that was that. She sent me a text asking me to come over this morning and we cuddled/made out in her bed. It got to the point where we were ready to strip and get it on. However I just decided to makeout as I'm not sure what I want to do in this situation. I'm totally attracted to this girl I just dont know if shacking up with her is the best Idea as we live in the same apartments and everything. Thoughts please? I could pursue it further if I wanted assuming she isn't offended I didnt sleep with her. I'm just not sure what to do. Should I text her telling her I want to think things over? Send an unsolicited text saying "I don't know if we should sleep together. Let me get back to you."? No. Don't do that. If there's no plans pending, don't make any. Take the time instead to do your thinking. I understand your wanting to avoid drama. Sounds like a good idea so should things not work out, and you want to bring chicks home, you can avoid a possible scene. Personally, I'd pass.
fishtaco Posted June 4, 2011 Posted June 4, 2011 Only thing bad is if things don't work out, and she's psycho, it could make your life pretty difficult, being that you're in the same apartment. But when I was renting, I was bouncing from place to place. I moved once every year. So if you're the same as how I was, then I'd say it wouldn't be too bad. Even if things go down bad, tough it out a few months and you'll end up moving anyway.
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