EgoJoe Posted June 3, 2011 Posted June 3, 2011 I'm lost for more reasons than a sour relationship and I'm sick of feeling melancholy. I don't want to be melodramatic yet this expression alludes to that feeling. The truth is that reality is subjective and we are just going through motions that won't matter anyways. Self satisfaction is all we can ever count on and that by nature seems inherently selfish and undignified. Thank you everyone at loveshack. I'm off to find my place in this fishbowl.
Nohbody Posted June 3, 2011 Posted June 3, 2011 If you gaze long into the abyss, the abyss gazes also into you. Good luck!
sun_moon Posted June 3, 2011 Posted June 3, 2011 Joe, What does this all exaclty mean? Well good luck and hopefully you will return feeling stronger and better. :-)
Exit Posted June 3, 2011 Posted June 3, 2011 Hm interesting. In a way that sounds kind of bleak, but if it results in an overall attitude of "welp, might as well try to make something of this all" then I guess it's positive in the end.
Author EgoJoe Posted June 3, 2011 Author Posted June 3, 2011 I'm just lost and confused. Trying to let go, I've been told I'm stopping myself. It's true yet I have been trying. I'm really conflicted and it is perturbing. After today I'm going to stop posting and checking in. I will probably return when things get better or to update when I find closure. I study physics, philosophy and religions though it isn't helping. Tara Maiden just gave me some insight into the fact that I am likely asking the wrong questions hence the unsatisfactory nature of the answers I receive. Please, don't consider this bleak. I think this site might actually be facilitating and enabling my inability to follow through with my own desire to let go of something volatile.
PelicanPete Posted June 3, 2011 Posted June 3, 2011 (edited) I had to take a break from LS for awhile as well, since it was preventing me from really moving on. I chose to return when I was feeling better because this site only reminded me of my heart ache when I was still not over my breakup. Good luck! Edited June 3, 2011 by PelicanPete
sun_moon Posted June 3, 2011 Posted June 3, 2011 Ok I get it now. i've had those thoughts too. Take care. :-) It is an oxymoron, a constant reminder but therapituc, then you hit a road block and need time on your own. I respect that.
Author EgoJoe Posted June 3, 2011 Author Posted June 3, 2011 It's not just about my relationship. I'm really just lost in general too much conflict in my own head. I really am greatful for the people here though.
John Davis Posted June 3, 2011 Posted June 3, 2011 It's not just about my relationship. I'm really just lost in general too much conflict in my own head. I really am greatful for the people here though. Don't worry about it man, just stay healthy, stay social and do things that make you happy. Help yourself and life will help you.
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