SportyChick7 Posted April 15, 2004 Posted April 15, 2004 I have been dating this guy for a year now, and dont really have an answer yet as to whether he is the 'one' or not. I know I dont have to rush into anything, but the longer I am with him, I feel i should have more of a definite feeling the longer I am with him. He is wonderful, yet I guess the idea of marriage is exciting, yet scary and I feel I should know pretty soon cuz I know what I am looking for. What would some "RED FLAGS" be that I should not get into a engagment/marriage commitment?
sportsloving Posted April 15, 2004 Posted April 15, 2004 The biggest thing you should know is if you Love him. You never mentioned it, and if you have to ask, it probably isn't so. I wish you lots of luck
hurtingandconfused Posted April 15, 2004 Posted April 15, 2004 dont really have an answer yet as to whether he is the 'one' or not. Confusion is the "Red flag."
Arabess Posted April 15, 2004 Posted April 15, 2004 Originally posted by hurtingandconfused Confusion is the "Red flag." Couldn't say it any better myself!!!!
Author SportyChick7 Posted April 15, 2004 Author Posted April 15, 2004 Being confused at this point is a red flag? I shouldnt give it more time? Its not a matter of confusion really, just uncertanty!
Sundaymorning Posted April 15, 2004 Posted April 15, 2004 as the saying goes, when you know, you just know.... there of course is a tiny level of uncertainty which is natural. But to really really ponder over it....that is a red flag
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