boomer123 Posted June 3, 2011 Posted June 3, 2011 Since we broke up so many things have been going through my head about myself and you so which has led me to write you this letter. First of all I would like to apologise about my behaviour on that Saturday night for ********* I was immature and I didn’t act like myself, which I truly regret and ashamed of. I know we have been in contact since we broke up, but with this time away from you it has made me realise a lot in what I had and what I have lost, I haven’t just lost a girlfriend but I’ve lost best friend in the process. The time that we had together was fantastic I have nothing but good memories of the last 5 months for me it was the best time I’ve had in a long long time. You showed me things about myself that I didn’t realise that I had in me and you did things for me that know one has ever done before. You are beautiful, smart, funny, independent, caring and loyal I admire those qualities in you so much. I understand your reason for not wanting to be with me any more. If you ever need me, I will be there for you. I will never forget you. You will always be in my heart. ************************** I still havent decide if I should sent it or not. Any tips?
PegNosePete Posted June 3, 2011 Posted June 3, 2011 OK allow me to translate it into girlspeak for you. Since we broke up so many things have been going through my head about myself and you so which has led me to write you this letter. I've realized that I was wrong and you were right. First of all I would like to apologise about my behaviour on that Saturday night for ********* I was immature and I didn’t act like myself, which I truly regret and ashamed of. I was wrong and you were right. As usual. I know we have been in contact since we broke up, but with this time away from you it has made me realise a lot in what I had and what I have lost, I haven’t just lost a girlfriend but I’ve lost best friend in the process. You are the best thing in the world. Hope you enjoy the ego stroking, I have plenty more to give. The time that we had together was fantastic I have nothing but good memories of the last 5 months for me it was the best time I’ve had in a long long time. You showed me things about myself that I didn’t realise that I had in me and you did things for me that know one has ever done before. You are the best thing since sliced bread and I am just pathetic compared to you. Why on earth were you with me in the first place? You are beautiful, smart, funny, independent, caring and loyal I admire those qualities in you so much. I understand your reason for not wanting to be with me any more. I understand your reason for not wanting to be with me any more, is that you are so much better than me. If you ever need me, I will be there for you. I will never forget you. You will always be in my heart. I am a puppy dog, just waiting to lap up any scrap of attention you might throw my way. If you would like to use me as an emotional tampon then go right ahead. I will always be on your back burner so if it doesn't work out with your new guy, just give me a call and I'll be right there. I have no life and I am not a strong person. I am a doormat and you'll never respect me. This is what she'll read when she gets it. Still want to send it?
Kodo Posted June 3, 2011 Posted June 3, 2011 All of the above is what she'll subconciously feel. You can even put your scent on it and you bet she'll recognise it when she tells her girl friends about the letter. You on the other hand will get nothing back. Don't do it.
radiodarcy Posted June 3, 2011 Posted June 3, 2011 i agree with the previous posters. i would strongly advise against sending her the letter. the last line made me cringe. there is nothing worse than allowing yourself to be someone's back up option. i should know i did it for years until i went NC and got my dignity back. it's the best thing i could have done for myself. please think about doing the same for you as well.
EricaH329 Posted June 3, 2011 Posted June 3, 2011 I would only advise that you send that if she did absolutely nothing wrong throughout the entire relationship. What you are basically saying is that everything was your fault, and she has no reason to evaluate her part in the break up. If you want to apologize for your part in the break up, i'd suggest doing only that. Emphasizing that you are apologizing for what you did, but that you understand it takes two to make a relationship work.
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