irc333 Posted June 3, 2011 Posted June 3, 2011 ...okay, I had a couple of occasions where, after I asked a woman for her # or FB profile to friend each other...recently, I got asked, "Okay, I'll give you my FB, but.....you're not a stalker are you? The last 2 guys I dated stalked me and it wasn't pretty." In some cases, it's in jest, but in other cases, they're dead serious, due to a bad experience. But, is there a real point in asking a new person they met that question?
refurb Posted June 3, 2011 Posted June 3, 2011 The best answer to that? Tell her you're going to print out all her photos and make a shrine to her in your closet. RF
vsmini Posted June 3, 2011 Posted June 3, 2011 ...okay, I had a couple of occasions where, after I asked a woman for her # or FB profile to friend each other...recently, I got asked, "Okay, I'll give you my FB, but.....you're not a stalker are you? The last 2 guys I dated stalked me and it wasn't pretty." In some cases, it's in jest, but in other cases, they're dead serious, due to a bad experience. But, is there a real point in asking a new person they met that question? I would be giving the eyes the old side sweep coupled with a "WTF?" if a girl was asking this question if she was over the age o 25. Seems pretty immature. "Are you a stalker?" Great idea honey - way to semi-insult someone who just asked for your information.
Star Gazer Posted June 3, 2011 Posted June 3, 2011 She's probably wondering why you're asking for her number/friending her in the way you are. I'd find it odd if someone I barely knew added me on FB.
Author irc333 Posted June 3, 2011 Author Posted June 3, 2011 She's probably wondering why you're asking for her number/friending her in the way you are. I'd find it odd if someone I barely knew added me on FB. Um...because I met her on a dating site, so the next logical step would be to ask for her phone #.
kiss_andmakeup Posted June 3, 2011 Posted June 3, 2011 Anyone who's really that concerned about being "stalked" shouldn't even have a facebook, or should have it on the most strict privacy setting. I deleted my facebook a while ago. But if I had one, I'd never give it out to a guy I barely know. To be honest I think facebook can be really destructive to a budding relationship. It takes the mystery and fun out of getting to know each other, because you're instantly overloaded with information and pictures about that person. Past relationships, friendships, family pictures, personal information...do really need to see all those things?
EasyHeart Posted June 3, 2011 Posted June 3, 2011 Let her know upfront that you are not a stalker, but you will sell a sex tape of her for a million dollars after you break up.
Cee Posted June 3, 2011 Posted June 3, 2011 Um...because I met her on a dating site, so the next logical step would be to ask for her phone #. If a woman on a dating site accuses you of being a "stalker" for asking for her number, I would immediately drop her. That's a disrespectful comment in that context. I don't think people on dating sites should friend each other on Facebook. I have done that with men I've had a couple of dates with and regretted it. These guys never were interested in me and I had to delete them. Not worth it.
Author irc333 Posted June 3, 2011 Author Posted June 3, 2011 If a woman on a dating site accuses you of being a "stalker" for asking for her number, I would immediately drop her. That's a disrespectful comment in that context. I don't think people on dating sites should friend each other on Facebook. I have done that with men I've had a couple of dates with and regretted it. These guys never were interested in me and I had to delete them. Not worth it. Actually, she kinda seemed to be all for the FB , says she's on there a lot anyhow. It was no biggie for her.
Cee Posted June 3, 2011 Posted June 3, 2011 The same woman didn't want to give you her number, but was fine with Facebook? That sounds peculiar and not like normal courtship to me. I'd still drop the whole thing.
Author irc333 Posted June 3, 2011 Author Posted June 3, 2011 The same woman didn't want to give you her number, but was fine with Facebook? That sounds peculiar and not like normal courtship to me. I'd still drop the whole thing. Actually, she had given me both.
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