lastresort Posted June 2, 2011 Posted June 2, 2011 AFter 4 months of separation and her filing for D we lost our house to the bank last week. She came over and has been helping me pack up and split our belongings, which i really don't want any of would rather just have my wife back. I did find a house to rent, it is 1.5 blocks from her and her moms house. we were in the garage working on the boxes and we both were a sad that we lost our house, which we dumped lots of money into, she was almost in tears which made me cry, seeing her hurting like that. I told her i still loved her and her response was believe it or not but i still love you too. I didnt dig any deeper just let her say it and then we hugged and got back to work. Last night i offered to cook her and her mom and the kids dinner, which she agreed to, at her house. It went great. I have refrained from bringing up the relationship to give her time to work on her feelings. Any advice on how i should approach it from here would be great.
Surfer203 Posted June 2, 2011 Posted June 2, 2011 I think this tale repeats itself frequently. We probably need more background info to pose any decent suggestions. That just shows you.. some one can go to the brink and come back emotionally. I would say, be cool, polite, friendly and independent still. Keep doing your thing but with a casual acknowledgement towards her, don't push it too fast. It is early on, if there will be a reconciliation it has to happen slowly. I wish you good luck, keep updating us.
coolheadal Posted June 2, 2011 Posted June 2, 2011 Your subject title answers your own question. Work on that with her and you see you still feel the same. That's good starting point. Forget about the house that's a lost move on to your new place and start off brand spanking new relationship with her. Whatever cause the first one to go down the deep end you have learned not to tread that way again. Good luck and think before you act! Keep it real and keep the relationship going!
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