Andy_K Posted June 3, 2011 Posted June 3, 2011 Given your avatar and that dress, I think 110% of the red-blooded males on the planet would have gone for a fondle during a makeout unless you specifically made it clear you were uncomfortable with that. It's a natural progression from kissing.
kiss_andmakeup Posted June 3, 2011 Posted June 3, 2011 According to her profile, OP is 15. You guys might want to take that into consideration before you proceed to comment on her "tits."
mr.dream merchant Posted June 3, 2011 Posted June 3, 2011 According to her profile, OP is 15. You guys might want to take that into consideration before you proceed to comment on her "tits." Yeah ok. :lmao:
GivenUp0083 Posted June 3, 2011 Posted June 3, 2011 what are the rules for wearing clothes on dates? You should wear them, that's a sound rule.
oaks Posted June 3, 2011 Posted June 3, 2011 at home i wear no clothes under my dress and when i left home i forgot to put things under it. my mom yells all the time about this If you're only 15 then either do what your mom tells you or at least ask her why she's yelling at you, but it sounds like you've found out what happens when you wear that dress and get too close to a teenage boy who is full of hormones. If there's a 'next time' for that guy, make sure you tell him to back off if he goes too far.
TaraMaiden Posted June 3, 2011 Posted June 3, 2011 According to her profile, OP is 15. You guys might want to take that into consideration before you proceed to comment on her "tits." Oh really?? She wanders around naked under her dress at home (her mum yells her out for it, so you'd think she would get it through her head, at some point!) .... I can't think why the word 'Lolita' keeps going through my head.....
Author angel_tenniser Posted June 3, 2011 Author Posted June 3, 2011 Seriously how old are you? 15 Let me get this straight. Your tits are huge. Knockers more than tits really. You wear that dress you linked, you know, the one with the breast area being see-through...and you "forget" to wear a top under it...so therefore, your huge knockers were visible...and you're upset that he grabbed them while kissing you? Lmao. Maybe I'm just a ****ing psycho or I think that maybe, just MAYBE, if you don't want people to be inappropriate about your physique...perhaps, cover up? When I go to the beach and my shirt is off, women grab me when I'm not looking. It's expected. And these are women. Guys are alot more horny than women. So you should've saw this coming a mile away, or at least, when you realized you could see your tits through your dress. I bet you wear revealing **** all of the time, which is why he thinks he can just grab your tits like that. When you dress like a sexually loose woman, men will treat you like a sexually loose woman. Men 101. i havent been allowed to date really until now so i just was not alert enough to the rules Given your avatar and that dress, I think 110% of the red-blooded males on the planet would have gone for a fondle during a makeout unless you specifically made it clear you were uncomfortable with that. It's a natural progression from kissing. i think its ok to be rubbed there over the top of my clothes like before but yeah just not used to on the skin, i will wear my triangles next time under that dress that is for sure!
Author angel_tenniser Posted June 3, 2011 Author Posted June 3, 2011 Oh really?? She wanders around naked under her dress at home (her mum yells her out for it, so you'd think she would get it through her head, at some point!) .... I can't think why the word 'Lolita' keeps going through my head..... only if people visit. otherwise its ok to wear anything i think, If you're only 15 then either do what your mom tells you or at least ask her why she's yelling at you, but it sounds like you've found out what happens when you wear that dress and get too close to a teenage boy who is full of hormones. If there's a 'next time' for that guy, make sure you tell him to back off if he goes too far. we play tennis so yes a lot of times
Lucky_One Posted June 5, 2011 Posted June 5, 2011 I'm a mom. And darned straight I would yell at you for not wearing panties and a bra under your clothes at home. I am a woman, and I don't want to see your hoo-ha or boobs, even if I was your mother. Act like you have some sort of common sense. No wonder you aren't allowed to date.
zengirl Posted June 6, 2011 Posted June 6, 2011 I'm a mom. And darned straight I would yell at you for not wearing panties and a bra under your clothes at home. I am a woman, and I don't want to see your hoo-ha or boobs, even if I was your mother. Act like you have some sort of common sense. No wonder you aren't allowed to date. Seriously. I'm not a Mom, but I would never let a daughter of mine run around in that dress without a swimsuit underneath, nor scantily clad outside of her bedroom/not sleeping. If your bare boobs are easily visible or grabbable, that's not so good, especially at 15.
SincereOnlineGuy Posted June 7, 2011 Posted June 7, 2011 what are the rules for wearing clothes on dates? Don't do the sort of dates during which clothing is not usually worn. (that's number one)
Author angel_tenniser Posted June 7, 2011 Author Posted June 7, 2011 (edited) I'm a mom. And darned straight I would yell at you for not wearing panties and a bra under your clothes at home. I am a woman, and I don't want to see your hoo-ha or boobs, even if I was your mother. Act like you have some sort of common sense. No wonder you aren't allowed to date. i am allowed to date now but i know lots of people that wear no panties, not everyday but sometimes or to kiss their boyfriend if they are up to that stage. bra i agree for support especially Seriously. I'm not a Mom, but I would never let a daughter of mine run around in that dress without a swimsuit underneath, nor scantily clad outside of her bedroom/not sleeping. If your bare boobs are easily visible or grabbable, that's not so good, especially at 15. probably because they grew suddenly and was in the wrong habits of free dress. Edited June 7, 2011 by angel_tenniser
Lucky_One Posted June 7, 2011 Posted June 7, 2011 No. If you knew people who jumped off the Empire State Building, would you jump, too? (I said I was a mom!) Really. Truly. Honestly. Women of all ages wear panties when they are wearing a dress, unless they have zero boundaries and think it is great to give everyone in the room a free beaver shot. I don't give a rat's ass if you think it is more comfortable; your family and people on the street (except for horny men who would love to do more than just look at your crotch) do NOT want to look at your hootch. If you aspire to be the sort of woman akin to Paris Hilton or her ilk, then keep wandering around without underwear. You are giving a clear signal to a man that you want him to look, you don't mind him looking, you enjoy his looking - and if a man looks long enough, he is going to want to touch it. You are setting yourself up for possible lifetime hurt and anguish, simply from poor setting of boundaries. Wear freaking underwear in 95% of your life situations, please.
EasyHeart Posted June 7, 2011 Posted June 7, 2011 YOU'RE 15?!??! Then the rules are that whenever you are anywhere that a boy might see you, you must wear a blouse or shirt that buttons all the way to your neck. Keep then all buttoned at all times. Wear long pants or a skirt/dress that goes way past your knees. And if any boy touches you (and that includes trying to hold your hand), spray his face with pepper spray and blow your rape whistle as loud as you can.
TheLawmaker Posted June 7, 2011 Posted June 7, 2011 I don't wear clothes on dates. I go stark naked. LOL! But seriously, it depends on the occasion. Baseball game? Wear jeans and a t shirt. Going out dancing? Wear a dress or tuxedo. Going to dinner at an expensive restaurant? Wear casual, but dressy clothes. And so on. That is, unless all you own is BDSM stuff. In which case, I can't help you.
TheLawmaker Posted June 7, 2011 Posted June 7, 2011 Wait, you're 15? Then I'd say jeans and a t shirt is appropriate for every occasion. You don't need to worry about "adult dating" yet.
Mimolicious Posted June 7, 2011 Posted June 7, 2011 what are the rules for wearing clothes on dates? if you arent feeling ready to go far with him is there things to make sure you do not wear to give wrong signals? something happened on my beach date and i did not expect/plan it Well, rule numero uno is= Always wear clothes to dates and KEEP YOUR CLOTHES ON AT ALL TIMES. If it was a "beach date" then wearing a bathing suit may have been a good fit, since you know... people wear those at the beach. Now don't show up to a BBQ wearing a 2 piece. What I am trying to say is (let me stop clowning around) select your clothing according to the place. If you are meeting at a park, wear something sporty and comfortable shoes. If you are meeting at a lounge, wear something casual, girly and flirty. If you are going to a formal place, don't be underdressed. It's all based on the place or activity.
Mimolicious Posted June 7, 2011 Posted June 7, 2011 After reading the this thread, I want to say this is pure comedy. Hone, not for nothing if that is you on the Avatar from the way they sag I doubt you get away with not wearing a bra. At 15, I was a 36D (was!) there was no way that I could pull off wearing a dress like that without one. They were touching your belly button then. It sounds like you are the "no no, yes yes" type. If you are in fact 15, think about the way that you really want to be treated and start behaving as such. People treat you the way you allow them too. I don't even think you are actually upset that this guy fondled you.
EasyHeart Posted June 7, 2011 Posted June 7, 2011 Wait, you're 15? Then I'd say jeans and a t shirt is appropriate for every occasion. You don't need to worry about "adult dating" yet.Loose-fitting jeans. No shorts! And wear at least a sweatshirt and one other layer over that t-shirt.
Intricategirl Posted June 8, 2011 Posted June 8, 2011 HAA! Okay, here's what's getting me. You're 15 and claim ignorance because you weren't allowed to date before now, and don't know what's considered proper. So, I've got to ask, how young would you have liked to date and learned these rules? Would you have rather been felt up at 10? 12? Trust me, sweetheart, 15 is not anywhere near the territory of old maid. You're supposed to figure this stuff out NO EARLIER than you are. Furthermore, whether a lot of girls go without undies has nothing to do with anything. I changed my kid's diapers, and I STILL hope I raised them with a proper sense of shame to put on some drawers. Next, you need to get with the telling him to back off immediately. You claim you'd be shocked if he reached up the bottom of the dress, but he's already seen you're game for the top half and when he's ready to escalate it, are you going to be ready to tell him off? Last, out of curiosity- how old's the guy?
ASG Posted June 8, 2011 Posted June 8, 2011 Wow... This thread is pure comedy gold!!! 1st of all, OP, I don't know how you manage to walk around without a bra, at all! Also, those triangles on your photo are ill fitting and provide NO support for what you have! I suffer from big boobs. It's the bane of my life. By 15 I was a 32E. From about 12 on I couldn't even *sleep* without a bra. If you do NOT wear a bra, at all times, you can bet that when you get to my age, your boobs will be reaching below your waist! Now, in regards to the topic at hand, what you need to do is SAY something! Guys WILL go for the boobs if they think they can get away with it. And truth is... he did! You didn't say anything, so I'm sure he thought "SCORE". Also, it is a good policy to wear underwear on your dates, unless you're actually going for something racy, which I don't think is the case.
Author angel_tenniser Posted June 8, 2011 Author Posted June 8, 2011 Well, rule numero uno is= Always wear clothes to dates and KEEP YOUR CLOTHES ON AT ALL TIMES. If it was a "beach date" then wearing a bathing suit may have been a good fit, since you know... people wear those at the beach. Now don't show up to a BBQ wearing a 2 piece. What I am trying to say is (let me stop clowning around) select your clothing according to the place. If you are meeting at a park, wear something sporty and comfortable shoes. If you are meeting at a lounge, wear something casual, girly and flirty. If you are going to a formal place, don't be underdressed. It's all based on the place or activity. no problema. No. If you knew people who jumped off the Empire State Building, would you jump, too? (I said I was a mom!) Really. Truly. Honestly. Women of all ages wear panties when they are wearing a dress, unless they have zero boundaries and think it is great to give everyone in the room a free beaver shot. I don't give a rat's ass if you think it is more comfortable; your family and people on the street (except for horny men who would love to do more than just look at your crotch) do NOT want to look at your hootch. If you aspire to be the sort of woman akin to Paris Hilton or her ilk, then keep wandering around without underwear. You are giving a clear signal to a man that you want him to look, you don't mind him looking, you enjoy his looking - and if a man looks long enough, he is going to want to touch it. You are setting yourself up for possible lifetime hurt and anguish, simply from poor setting of boundaries. Wear freaking underwear in 95% of your life situations, please. i do not like paris hilton, i like lingerie anyway so that is no problema.
Author angel_tenniser Posted June 8, 2011 Author Posted June 8, 2011 Wow... This thread is pure comedy gold!!! 1st of all, OP, I don't know how you manage to walk around without a bra, at all! Also, those triangles on your photo are ill fitting and provide NO support for what you have! I suffer from big boobs. It's the bane of my life. By 15 I was a 32E. From about 12 on I couldn't even *sleep* without a bra. If you do NOT wear a bra, at all times, you can bet that when you get to my age, your boobs will be reaching below your waist! Now, in regards to the topic at hand, what you need to do is SAY something! Guys WILL go for the boobs if they think they can get away with it. And truth is... he did! You didn't say anything, so I'm sure he thought "SCORE". Also, it is a good policy to wear underwear on your dates, unless you're actually going for something racy, which I don't think is the case. my dress looks light but its heavyish fabric and it presses my boobs and controls. i like lingerie [i sleep in it even!) but was copying friends. HAA! Okay, here's what's getting me. You're 15 and claim ignorance because you weren't allowed to date before now, and don't know what's considered proper. So, I've got to ask, how young would you have liked to date and learned these rules? Would you have rather been felt up at 10? 12? Trust me, sweetheart, 15 is not anywhere near the territory of old maid. You're supposed to figure this stuff out NO EARLIER than you are. Furthermore, whether a lot of girls go without undies has nothing to do with anything. I changed my kid's diapers, and I STILL hope I raised them with a proper sense of shame to put on some drawers. Next, you need to get with the telling him to back off immediately. You claim you'd be shocked if he reached up the bottom of the dress, but he's already seen you're game for the top half and when he's ready to escalate it, are you going to be ready to tell him off? Last, out of curiosity- how old's the guy? i do not think i would tell him off but just will dress smarter. i think he is my forever lover he is same year as me but different classes. Loose-fitting jeans. No shorts! And wear at least a sweatshirt and one other layer over that t-shirt. no problema. After reading the this thread, I want to say this is pure comedy. Hone, not for nothing if that is you on the Avatar from the way they sag I doubt you get away with not wearing a bra. At 15, I was a 36D (was!) there was no way that I could pull off wearing a dress like that without one. They were touching your belly button then. It sounds like you are the "no no, yes yes" type. If you are in fact 15, think about the way that you really want to be treated and start behaving as such. People treat you the way you allow them too. I don't even think you are actually upset that this guy fondled you. i liked how it felt but was concerned of him doing my thighs because it tickled when a dude at school touched our legs.
Intricategirl Posted June 8, 2011 Posted June 8, 2011 i do not think i would tell him off but just will dress smarter. i think he is my forever lover he is same year as me but different classes. You're not following... You should be telling him to keep his hands to himself. How you dress has little to do with it. You can be wearing jeans and a sweater and he still tries to feel you up. What then? You're dressed appropriately- are you going to just let him do it? Believe it or not, "no" and "stop" are not dirty words, nor do they need to be pushy, aggressive, or b*tchy.
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