Denaliguy Posted June 2, 2011 Posted June 2, 2011 I dont get any quiet time with my wife? she works 8 hours a day then when she gets home she is so exhausted, or she is too hot to hold on each other even when a/c is on 74 degrees, We fight daily. I have so much anger for her when she does something wrong, something so small i can explode. she does pretty much anything i ask of her, and i try to spoil her with new stuff clothes, ect, shopping, because she works hard and deserves nice things too, but we are both alwyas asking who you texting ect, we are not either allowed to have friends, or go out with our friends alone. we each have one we are allowed. how can i control our angry and get our love back to how it used to be before its too late. we can have such great days but by the end of the night something small usually erupts over something stupid. then we argue scream at each other she makes fun of the way i get upset but if i was to lay on the couch she would always make sure she was there soon to move me back to bed and cover me up. so maybe i cause the small stuff and get upset over basically nothing but it is so hard at first she was a wild child that had to settle down and be involved in the family. and she still sneaks but always gets caught
Mauschen Posted June 2, 2011 Posted June 2, 2011 Read the books Love Busters and His Needs Her Needs. Why don't you have more friends? I understand not having friends of the opposite sex, but why not more friends of the same sex?
coolheadal Posted June 2, 2011 Posted June 2, 2011 When last you and her had taken a vacation? Sounds like you to need one. Otherwise she might walk out of your life and then you'll be really upset. Take some time and understand your wife needs. She's works all day long. Give her some room. This wild child type of girl meaning she likes to party all night or a bar fly girl?
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