molimo140 Posted June 3, 2011 Posted June 3, 2011 DreamerGirl, I have been around these forums for a long time. I lurk for the most part, but I have been reading your posts anonymously for a while now and I finally feel the need to say something. You are flat-out out of your mind. You use these forums like your personal blog, posting thread after thread ranting about this and that and how you have come to these profound realizations about yourself and about what you want. It's amazing the amount of time you must spend thinking about all this every day. Then you go on to completely disregard anything anyone has to say to you.. what exactly do you expect to get out of this? You're like the kid who's solved a math problem on the board and are too proud of your accomplishment to listen to anyone's input even if your answer is wrong. You're attaching far too many rules and constraints to relationships. You're essentially building up a relationship in your mind to some ultimate demi-godly position that you will never ever be able to reach. Listen, I completely understand that your desires are special to you and congratulations for sticking to them. I hope that you find someone who is on the same page as you, but you really need to get out of your own head if you ever expect to find anyone. Spend less time on these forums and more time in the real world, it'll do you a lot of good. Reading about other people's problems all day is doing more harm to you than good, trust me.
rafallus Posted June 3, 2011 Posted June 3, 2011 It is my decision. Bashing me for it is doing us no good. And whoever assumed I don't have friends. I said I don't have many MALE friends. Big difference. Honestly, it looks like you just hate men. Good luck finding one then.
Ross MwcFan Posted June 3, 2011 Posted June 3, 2011 (edited) Honestly, it looks like you just hate men. Good luck finding one then. It seems her main problem is that she hardly finds hardly any men attractive. Right now she's only into one guy, and Hanson. Edited June 3, 2011 by Ross MwcFan
Author DreamerGirl27 Posted June 3, 2011 Author Posted June 3, 2011 Just a question do, you plan to get engaged and married very quick just to have sex? Like do you see yourself going past a year dating some one before you are married? I only ask because by withholding from all forms of sex for say a 2 year relationship and then a 1 year engagement that would be 3 years of no sex. So you kind of put a rush on getting married. Like getting engaged at the 6 month mark and then being married by a year. I just want to make clear I’m not bashing your view I just strongly believe in having sex before marriage. I honestly can’t ever see myself marrying some one I’ve never had sex with. Seems like a recipe for disaster. I've gone 26 years no sex and haven't had a mental break down because of it, yet. I think I can go 3 more years.
Disillusioned Posted June 4, 2011 Posted June 4, 2011 and I go back and forth on this, but I really don't want a boyfriend. Congratulations. You've made up your mind about relationships. You've made a decision that fewer than 1 out of 20 people have made, and for that I respect you. A friend, yes, but a boyfriend, no. Guys=sex and I don't want sex...yet. I need to get a lot of other things about my life sorted out before I get into a relationship. I also need to get stronger in the fact that I will not sleep with a guy before marriage. For spiritual and practical reasons. Sex=babies and we all know condoms and birth control are 100% . Not to mention, STD's and all sorts of other risks that I shouldn't have to be concerned with until I am in a committed relationship with someone I know, love and trust that doesn't have those things. It's just not practical to have sex outside of a marriage. Regardless of your religious beliefs. Here's a big, deep dark secret---there's more to life than sex. Anyone who tells you otherwise is obviously an addict or isn't smart enough to have other things to do in their spare time. In the meantime, do something else that very few people do: look up "platonic" in the dictionary.
rafallus Posted June 4, 2011 Posted June 4, 2011 It seems her main problem is that she hardly finds hardly any men attractive. Right now she's only into one guy, and Hanson. Well, that would be quite plausible too. Then again you have nuggets of wisdom like: No, women who put their foot down on sex have difficulty attracting men, because men are shallow pigs who are only out for one thing. Also I can't help but love this little bit of self-contradiction: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showpost.php?p=3433238&postcount=7 comare with this: http://www.loveshack.org/forums/showpost.php?p=3437145&postcount=6 ...
Author DreamerGirl27 Posted June 5, 2011 Author Posted June 5, 2011 That's really creepy that you're following me around the boards enough to be able to link them to each other. I'm not sure whether to alert this or not...
LShasleftmeindespair Posted June 5, 2011 Posted June 5, 2011 Noticing trends has nothing to do with being creepy.
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