Rello55 Posted June 1, 2011 Posted June 1, 2011 Well i ben in a relationship with my ex for 3.5 years and we broke up about 6 months ago (which i broke up with her) and a month after being single she got into another relationship with this other guy which had me hurt for a while but with NC i got alot better and got over it which means i dont hate her anymore not mad anymore either no grudges held i also just improved myself just for myself after 2.5 months of NC she called me one day i picked up she sounded happy to talk to me but i kept the convo very short bcuz it was a Saturday night so i was hanging out with friends and having a good time and i know she realized i was having a good time cuz she heard the music in the background so i told her that i was too busy 2 talk so i told her i was going to call her back but i never did too caught up in the moment so a day later she called me again and that night we talked just laughed caught up just talked like we used to talk when we was 2gether we talkd for about an hour right after the convo she textd me trying to start up another convo i keep the convo very short though just 2 texts between us both after another day without talking to her she called me again i also kept this convo short because i was finishing up the last of my schoolwork before the year is over so i was still busy but she also sounded happy and even said she wanted to come over my house to see me (which i have the house to myself for about 5 - 6 hrs a day and also to let you guys know she still is in another relationship) now i know some girls do not exactly know or want to tell their feeling she probably even confused but i just want to does she miss me and thinking about me maybe she wants to get back together she's just wants to get her feelings together 1st idk i just need some advice i think i should just stay NC because me moving too fast and asking for another try at our relationship will **** up things i know i just need to know if im doing the right thing
sinnister Posted June 1, 2011 Posted June 1, 2011 Yeah she misses you...depending on the reasons for the b/u, she may or may not want to get back together..but you need to take your time with this one...she may be calling out of hurt..but being the dumper..you can break all the rules of the previous thread..but respect her feelings and r/s. If you steal her back from someone when she's trying to prove on, you should be in it to really take care of her..not string her along.
Author Rello55 Posted June 1, 2011 Author Posted June 1, 2011 yeah that makes sense but yeah i was the dumper it wasnt as if i didnt love her anymore or anything like that i was just drunk being an ******* and she was just vulnerable when that dude stepped in. I dont think she was hurt but if she was she was hurt from hurting me bcuz i was devastated by her new relationship but we are past the hurt now just miss each other i guess and i would never just string her along i want to try us again idk if she does too i want to know that exactly
Author Rello55 Posted June 1, 2011 Author Posted June 1, 2011 We spent three years together, I was her best friend, had a lot of fun, made a difference in her life, shared a lot of special moments and experiences together, I wanted what was best for her, challenged her, she is a better person having known me, etc. Simply put... I am unforgettable! I totally agree with this and she also has said she will never forget me and since we been apart for a while i think she misses me but just wants to sort things out herself hopefully she will do that soon
Author Rello55 Posted June 1, 2011 Author Posted June 1, 2011 There you go... In the meantime, on to the next one! Oh yeah im still living the single life enjoying myself and she knows that (Becuz i tell her LOL) but she will come to her senses soon
EgoJoe Posted June 1, 2011 Posted June 1, 2011 Homebrew is James Taylor; and another one and another and another one bites the dust.
Author Rello55 Posted June 2, 2011 Author Posted June 2, 2011 Homebrew is James Taylor; and another one and another and another one bites the dust. Huh?????? dnt understand
EgoJoe Posted June 2, 2011 Posted June 2, 2011 I was trying to be funny, guess I got them mixed up. I was making the point that Homebrew wants you to get another quick. I agree yet you should take some time for yourself.
Author Rello55 Posted June 2, 2011 Author Posted June 2, 2011 Me neither... James Taylor and the lyrics from a Queen song. If we are going with Queen... then I choose: I Want to Break Free Check it out! If you are being strung along... You will identify with the song. Oh okay but being sprung along is out of the question for me n my ex its not like that i try to avoid that
Author Rello55 Posted June 2, 2011 Author Posted June 2, 2011 I was trying to be funny, guess I got them mixed up. I was making the point that Homebrew wants you to get another quick. I agree yet you should take some time for yourself. I have been taking time to myself i have improved alot since 6 months ago im jus not waiting im living the single life til we are both ready
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