Conscience Posted June 1, 2011 Posted June 1, 2011 Ive been posting here for a bit now, so I've been strong along by my ex of 8 yrs..... now I started to see other women actually got quite successful at that I go to the gym I'm in the best shape Ive ever been I'm happy and put myself on a pedestal... The other day i receive a random txt from the ex about something my 4 yr old daughter told her "That she wish I would move in with them etc" I've eard it all before so I don't pay much attention.... the next morning she's on my door step crying and she misses me and that she wants us to be together etc and I had told her via txt the day before that I was done it was over!!!! I've been true this like 4 times now where as soon as she feels im pulling away she's back full force trying to get me back ... I told her tell me what is diferent this time, she said I spent the weekend thinking and I know I f*** up and Im willing to do what it takes..... I don't know what to do??? I met a great girl and its going super slow she's older then what I am use to date but she knows where she is in life and what she wants etc Should I give the ex another shot and loose contact with all these new women I've became friends with or simply move on and leave the ex in the past ????
Rose T Posted June 1, 2011 Posted June 1, 2011 Conscience, only you know what you have been through with your ex and 8 years plus your daughter is a huge shared history, but from the way you've presented your story, I think you know the answer. It's so gratifying when our exes come back and grovel. But we know them so well, we know what the reality is going to be like. You're finding that other women appreciate you, you're dating outside your supposed "type", which is always healthy, and you even have a girl you quite like. Why go back? Good luck. You have a great attitude and I'll think you'll do what's right.
Author Conscience Posted June 1, 2011 Author Posted June 1, 2011 I think the important thing here is to be happy, I still love my wife and I would certainly love to be back as a happy family with her and my two beautiful children... but at what cost ? I am not willing to be hurt again and I won't be strong along ! I guess only time will tell in the mean time I will keep dating and take care of myself! Thanks Rose
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