usabup Posted June 1, 2011 Posted June 1, 2011 Is it a good idea to start dating again if you are still feeling slight pain from the previous break up? I know I don't want my ex back, but I still feel slight pain and although I feel like I have moved on, I still have the odd bad day. We seperated in March after a one year relationship. We were engaged. Any comments would be appreciated.
ThatBwoii Posted June 1, 2011 Posted June 1, 2011 Move on, if there is only a little bit off pain left this should heal it easily, just take things slow at first and maybe you will find happiness good luck
Mack05 Posted June 1, 2011 Posted June 1, 2011 Personally I like to take my time. Deal with all my feelings from the past relationship. Yes I suffer in the short term, but I will end up happier in the longterm. My ex moves from guy to guy really quickly. Making excuses for this kind of behaviour and kidding herself over and over. That kind of behaviour catches up with you later in life. When you push your feelings to one side, don't deal with them its a recipe for disaster. Feel your feelings buddy. You will know when the time is right and when its right to move on.
SimonSerenade Posted June 1, 2011 Posted June 1, 2011 I'd say go for it, maybe your not ready but there's no harm in seeing what else is out there, take it easy and get to know people, the alternative would be to sit around depressed with thoughts of her plauging your mind, I know which one I'd sooner do matey
Nohbody Posted June 1, 2011 Posted June 1, 2011 It's been about a month for me since my ex left me, and I've set a tentative deadline to start dating in September or October. Going back to college will probably help a little with that . The important thing (I think) is to make sure you don't get sucked into someone else's life, retain autonomy, and continue to work on yourself.
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