ThatBwoii Posted May 31, 2011 Posted May 31, 2011 (edited) ok, some people say NC is strict, but you can have contact if your ex contacts you and you reply with short answers such as "yes" and "no", i did it with my ex earlier, i blocked her on facebook, on msn, on myspace, everything apart from Skype, which i barely use, i only go on there to contact old friends and she knows that, she went on while i was on and she wrote this message to me. HER: did i leave my work books at yours? < attempted conversation initation ME.: no < Simples HER: you sure i can't find them? < 2nd attempt, ME.: yes < Simples HER: k < Passive-Agressively Gives up She knows i didnt have her work boots, i told her plenty of times. i think that this was the best thing that i could have done at the time. what do ya'll think? Edited May 31, 2011 by ThatBwoii
sinnister Posted May 31, 2011 Posted May 31, 2011 ok, some people say NC is strict, but you can have contact if your ex contacts you and you reply with short answers such as "yes" and "no", i did it with my ex earlier, i blocked her on facebook, on msn, on myspace, everything apart from Skype, which i barely use, i only go on there to contact old friends and she knows that, she went on while i was on and she wrote this message to me. HER: did i leave my work books at yours? < attempted conversation initation ME.: no < Simples HER: you sure i can't find them? < 2nd attempt, ME.: yes < Simples HER: k < Passive-Agressively Gives up She knows i didnt have her work boots, i told her plenty of times. i think that this was the best thing that i could have done at the time. what do ya'll think? Yeah...if you can handle it, I think you're on the right path...torture her back by staying distant...she will profess her love for u soon enough. You'll have the chance to rebuff her for a change. If you want to save yourself that drama...just NC completely. But I'm for the torture in this case, cause she went out of her way to make u feel like s--t about it all. Keep cool..you got the game locked.
Author ThatBwoii Posted May 31, 2011 Author Posted May 31, 2011 I dont want to hurt this girl, but i think she does deserve to be hurt, im not the type off person to play her mind games with her, she is trying to get attention from me without me noticing she has caused it, im not that dumb, im going to get over this and im going to be happy and she is going to be sad, just the way it should be.
Fedor Posted June 1, 2011 Posted June 1, 2011 It may just be mind games. She doesnt want you to forget about her. Stuff like that is childish and should be avoided!
sinnister Posted June 1, 2011 Posted June 1, 2011 (edited) I dont want to hurt this girl, but i think she does deserve to be hurt, im not the type off person to play her mind games with her, she is trying to get attention from me without me noticing she has caused it, im not that dumb, im going to get over this and im going to be happy and she is going to be sad, just the way it should be. N don't get me wrong..I'm not saying to flirt..be overtly friendly at all. It's not mind games to act like it is..that the person is not that significant to you. Treat her like a spammer that you know..one word answers. Keep comm open just to have her figure out why you don't care n she cares so much. It'll drive her nuts..but just NC to avoid this..but I suggest (n I would never do this before recent b/u and seeing what happened to you) that she should have a few meltdowns by her own making first. She flares up..you get to be cool..then go NC laughing your ass off. But yeah...the real deal...NC means to delete EVERYTHING that reminds you of the other person. Like a virtual, physical Spotless Sunshine. Anything that could ever make you think about her, get rid of or hide if you think you'd reconcile at a later date. No calls..no FB linkage to her...read/accept texts, emails...all of that. You don't initiate ANY contact with her or any one she knows that isn't already a mutual friend. Edited June 1, 2011 by sinnister
Author ThatBwoii Posted June 1, 2011 Author Posted June 1, 2011 I know what you mean bro, but the thing is that she has gone out of her way to contact me, she knew i didnt have her work boots and she is expecting me to get emotionall, im not going to do that, atleast tnot to her anyway, she isnt the person i need to be going to to sort this situation out, im sure she will try nd contact me in the future, i have just noticed that she has changed her profile on facebook to hidden, and i think its pretty obvious that she is trying to make me crack, and i know that if i do she will try to milk me dry, i know that if i was to say more to her it would make her feel better, and i know that im doing the est thing i can do right now, i just have to maintain the bombardment off passive-agressive attention seeking and start living my own life.
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