ShoeGurl1973 Posted May 31, 2011 Posted May 31, 2011 My ex and I have been in NC for two months with one exception of a text he sent saying he still loved me - i responded by reiterating the insulting things he said to me the night we broke up. He proceeded to tell me I was the one he wanted to marry, but he failed...it was making me feel like I was crazy. I told him that i wished him luck and not to contact me going forward. Anyway, we have several mutual friends - a couple who came over to my house last night. They asked how I was coping with things and I said fine. But then I told them the two different occasions he emailed me blaming himself for the breakup (I ignored that one) and then the aforementioned text about how he still loved me. They both shook their heads in amazement. Neither could believe he did this - I guess my ex is keeping a good front up around friends acting like his fine with everything. Why would someone do that? He told them he tried to apologize and i told him not to speak to me ever again. He didn't tell whole story on how he texted me saying "I still love you", or that he had failed in regards to our relationship. I don't like putting people in the middle of things but this is clearly wrong and unfair. Anyone else have stories on how to handle mutual friend situations?
learned76 Posted May 31, 2011 Posted May 31, 2011 Sadly, it's common for people to put on the appearance that everything is fine, even though internally the torment is eating away at them. It seems this guy wants to look the victim instead of owning up to his role in the demise of the relationship.
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