cracker2011 Posted May 31, 2011 Posted May 31, 2011 I have been in LDR since xmas.we only met once briefly before starting an LDRwe from same country.he lives states and i live uk.a job opening came up with my company in his state and i asked him if i should consider applying. he thinks that it might be too soon and is scared to take a big step like me moving.He is great to me, treats me well, says he is crazy about me. i broke up with him this morn at airport because i felt he didnt enough about me to think that it wud be good for our relationship to take a chance on this. it wud be ideal , as work wud sort out visa etc. question is..am i being silly about this? does he just not want to be with me? or is it that he is scared to make such a drastic decision? i dont want to break up with him, and he doesnt want me to end it, but i dont know how to continue an LDR seeing each other only even 8 wks from now on.we were meeting every 4 wks until now..
heartshaped Posted May 31, 2011 Posted May 31, 2011 Have you tried telling him that this is what you want to do and you won't regret moving if things don't work out? I think he's just worried about you making such a huge commitment so early on in the relationship which is very, very reasonable. I would try communicating more with him on the issue telling him everything you've written here and see what his response is.
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