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I have been in LDR since xmas.we only met once briefly before starting an LDRwe from same country.he lives states and i live uk.a job opening came up with my company in his state and i asked him if i should consider applying. he thinks that it might be too soon and is scared to take a big step like me moving.He is great to me, treats me well, says he is crazy about me. i broke up with him this morn at airport because i felt he didnt enough about me to think that it wud be good for our relationship to take a chance on this. it wud be ideal , as work wud sort out visa etc.

question is..am i being silly about this? does he just not want to be with me? or is it that he is scared to make such a drastic decision?

i dont want to break up with him, and he doesnt want me to end it, but i dont know how to continue an LDR seeing each other only even 8 wks from now on.we were meeting every 4 wks until now..

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Have you tried telling him that this is what you want to do and you won't regret moving if things don't work out? I think he's just worried about you making such a huge commitment so early on in the relationship which is very, very reasonable. I would try communicating more with him on the issue telling him everything you've written here and see what his response is.

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