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what are my ex's motives?? where do i stand

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my ex and i have been broken up for 5 weeks she makes it very clear she doesn't want to get back with me so i went NC and she sarted contacting me this is how it went?

 

i end up contacting her today well she iniciated it but i finished it with 'wanna go for coffee next week'? she ended up saying yes but only as friends

i said sure no probs we are just friends with a smiley face.. so we agreed on a time. then this is wat pisses me off i feel like she's using me

she rings me later that afternoon asking if she can have my old iphone cos i'm not using it anymore!!!!! Like WTF that annoyed me but ofcourse i said yes :rolleyes:

Then txt's me later that night asking if she can come and take my dogs out for a walk but made it pretty clear she didn't want me to come!!!! WTF again

I dunno why but i feel like she's sorta avoiding me but wants to use me at the same time to get what she needs she did really love my dogs. so ofcourse i said yes she can take them by her self and she can pick up the phone at the same time... geee i feel like i'm gettin takin for a ride a little bit, i've told her i'm happy to be friends which iam, i'm doin fine with out her except for thinking of her alot i've become quite proactive since the split.

 

i would be fine to take the dogs out together i mean why not we're 'FRIENDS' arn't we?? arhhhhh its doin my head in abit, i can tell she's not really comfortable thinking about spending time with me but she's more than happy to ask to borrow my car of take the dogs out or ask for an iphone...

 

i Just dunno i'm tryin to see the bright side in all this and not care about it, if she wants to take my dogs out by her self fine go for it, atleast my dogs will love it! but i must admitt its abit frustrating!:(

 

wat does she want from me she doesn't want to be together but wants to be friends but cant handle hangin out with me... confused like a mother ****er i think i was better off when we we'rnt talking even tho i like hearing from her and it makes me happy its to much of a head ***

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