Mary3 Posted April 14, 2004 Posted April 14, 2004 Hi everyone I posted earlier about " MY X is messing with my mind " I appreciate all the advice and I have officially ended the relationship. It needed to be done because I could not be *** his friend ****anymore. He no longer loves me and left behind a quite devastated woman. I only now think of the negative things he did and the good memories I quickly shove aside... My question is this : How do I forget about him ? I have removed all his pictures and anything that reminds me of him. When I have a thought about him I say * stop * and continue doing that ....throughout the day. I will not accept his calls and if he emails I will tell him to leave me alone. But seriously : what tyoes of advice can you give me to help me forget this man who created so much pain. ? This was the most meaningful relationship I ever had...the most love I ever felt but his feelings changed and I have had nitemares and suffered greatly. I very much want to be in a place where I feel NOTHING . I am seeing someone else now but wont commit after 5 dates because I want to be sure I am *healed *before I go into another relationship. I am not eager to get hurt again but realize at the same time I leave the door open to a loving relationship with the right person. Please offer some more great advice...You guys rock !
sienna Posted April 15, 2004 Posted April 15, 2004 Well, to forget is to put it out of your mind and time will heal. I would have made him feel guilty at the time. oh well.....Continue dating until your ready and dont dwell on the past with HIM He isnt worth it! Good Luck.
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