MyHeartHurtsOuch Posted May 31, 2011 Posted May 31, 2011 Okay so I've been on here for a bit and the latest was that 3 wks ago i had asked my ex to give us a second chance (just us no dating others) and he said he doesnt know how to reply to that. 2 wks pass and nothing. then i see his car at the movies and he sees mine...the next day he writes me an email asking if we can open a line of communication and that he "selfishly wants and wishes so much" and that he's trying to do as I asked and leave me alone. Now it's been a week and I didnt reply cause I dont know what to do. I want to reply because i miss him and i want to show him that i can be open and normal and not always get my way (for us to get right back together) but i dont want to reply because i think i don't even know what to say and if i act all happy and normal i don't really want to hear about how awesome and happy his life is without me... i don't know what to do. i dont want him to think that i'm ignoring his attempt to open up communication bc i'm still being a controlling witch as i was before...but i also think that he should know that i want to be with him and that he should consider giving me a second chance without the need to date other women after he wrote me the email last monday i went one week without crying...now today i just lost it and cried. i miss him. i hate all this. i just wish he would write me and say hey i'm scared but its worth a try and for us to start over fresh but last thing he said to me was he doesnt think i am willing to take it slow. that i will immediately want him to be exclusive and in a full on relationship with me
sinnister Posted May 31, 2011 Posted May 31, 2011 Can do url post to history? Just wanna see how the b/u happened. Yeah, he might wanna push you off slowly, but not be rude..by feeding you the good news about his life..or it can end up being he shares his insecurities/days/thoughts with you n that intimacy can lead to something more. It's your risk..be prepared for any outcome..but if you want him back, just apologize for taking the week to think as you did want to get back together and you don't/didn't think just being friends was your thing. In the spirit of compromising as you've alluded to, you've decided to give it a try. That or stay NC..but it would be rude after he asked for communication.
Author MyHeartHurtsOuch Posted May 31, 2011 Author Posted May 31, 2011 http://www.loveshack.org/forums/t276146/
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