Surf Rider Posted May 30, 2011 Posted May 30, 2011 It has been a little over a year since my ex left me and i feel my heart is still mending back together. I have heard so many times that "time heals all" Do I miss the times we had together? Of course. I'm not pining over her as much as i did the first 2 or three months after it happened. I am getting on with my life but the memories we had keep popping up in my head. Unfortunately we go to the same school and i am hoping she does not come back after what she did to me. I have deleted her number from my cell and have deleted my facebook page cuz i don't want to see what is going on in her life. Is this normal?? After all this was my very first relationship and im now 23. Any suggestions?
Desensitized Posted May 30, 2011 Posted May 30, 2011 It has been a little over a year since my ex left me and i feel my heart is still mending back together. I have heard so many times that "time heals all" Do I miss the times we had together? Of course. I'm not pining over her as much as i did the first 2 or three months after it happened. I am getting on with my life but the memories we had keep popping up in my head. Unfortunately we go to the same school and i am hoping she does not come back after what she did to me. I have deleted her number from my cell and have deleted my facebook page cuz i don't want to see what is going on in her life. Is this normal?? After all this was my very first relationship and im now 23. Any suggestions? Yes, it is normal. Unfortunately, time doesn't heal all wounds. All time does is make you put her in the back of your mind and when something triggers a memory of you and her, you're back to feeling ****ty again. However, in order for time to heal "all wounds," you need to be proactive about it. That's why people can go years with NC from their ex and still feel ****ty about it even though a very long time has passed.
danny1972 Posted May 30, 2011 Posted May 30, 2011 i guess it depends on the length and the intensity of the relationship but yeah pretty normal , im 38 and its been a year since i split with my ex , i think about her everyday and the fact she lives down the road from me makes it difficult , dont make the mistakes i made by being in contact , just prolongs the agony , if it's meant to be and the relationship was a solid one it will work it's self out , untill then no contact , period.
Author Surf Rider Posted May 30, 2011 Author Posted May 30, 2011 i guess it depends on the length and the intensity of the relationship but yeah pretty normal , im 38 and its been a year since i split with my ex , i think about her everyday and the fact she lives down the road from me makes it difficult , dont make the mistakes i made by being in contact , just prolongs the agony , if it's meant to be and the relationship was a solid one it will work it's self out , untill then no contact , period. Yeah im so glad i made that decision. Im so glad summer is here and she is back home where she belongs. This past semester before school started she started to text me and i text her back. My parents strongly advised me to stop texting her and im so glad i listened because i think that would have created a "false hope" that we would get back together. After all, she is the one who lost feelings for me. I don't mind saying this that i hope i never see her again.
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