Livelovelearn Posted May 30, 2011 Posted May 30, 2011 I just wanted to share to everyone here stop looking for second chances! I think once your relationship is broken it will never ever be the same. So stop chasing after the one who left you. I used to not want to believe this statement but now i live by it. My ex recently got back in contact with me after 3 months of no contact and we have been broken up for a year. I do not know why he contacted me claiming he wanted to say hi and see how i was doing then messaging on his bday saying i forgot then drunk texting me to wake up. AND GUESS WHAT i thought maybe he wants to get back, but then i check his fb page and it has a pic of him and a girl. I asked him who she was and he said it was his gf!!!! wtf can you believe that. I asked how long he said a month yet he came contacting me. I quickly messaged him and said please do not contact me again. I learned maybe he was just messaging me to feel less guilty since he did cheat on me and i was good to him...anyway i am kind of hurt but now i will forever live by this statement. And people if you are getting back together after couple weeks, i will say this...prepare to break up again! Its useless...theres plenty people out in this big world..go out and find another!!!! It would be less hurtful on you...... thats my opinion and i just had to share that!
Rose T Posted June 1, 2011 Posted June 1, 2011 I second all of that! It's similar to my recent experience. Certainly when we're talking about BF and GF relationships, rather than marriages with kids, there's no point in taking a second look at a broken relationship. Especially if they cheated. Find someone new!
jacksonBrown Posted June 2, 2011 Posted June 2, 2011 well said i'm currently thinking the same thing! Cut all Contact and move on harder said than done but better in the long run
Sugarkane Posted June 2, 2011 Posted June 2, 2011 I absolutely agree with you aswell. I also had an ex do this. He wanted to know all about my current sex life and if I was seeing anyone new. I don't know why, he's the one that ended it. Then he promised to meet me and "make it to me" etc etc. It was like a broken record, making promises and yet always breaking them. A month later and he still had made no effort to even meet up with me. My ex hadn't changed at all, which is pretty sad. I had enough and put him on the spot. Why do you always do this to me and waste my time? And hilariously called me the psycho. What an absolute joke! Another jerk bites the dust. Throughout the whole relationship I was the only one putting in any effort. I knew that relatiosnhips weren't supposed to be that hard. He could've had me a great girlfriend, yet continually sabotaged any chance he had.
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