danny1972 Posted May 30, 2011 Posted May 30, 2011 hi all , just need some advice here i split with my ex approx a year ago admitidly maybe i have some feelings still as im sure she does , we have met once or twice since , had sex etc.. but nothing come of it none of us i guess want to go through through that again , (was a very volotile relationship ). some time ago she was sacked from her job , she currently has no money , her social money has been stopped and is on the verge of eviction from her flat , i gave her some money a while ago not a lot , but enough for some food , then took her out for the evening she seemed gratefull. a couple of days ago i sent her a text saying worse case scenario she could stay with me , not very practicall but i wouldnt see her out on the streets i said i would help her financially if she stayed here ,etc... i also text her asking if she wanted to come around for dinner that day , i bought the food in just in case . a few hrs later i text her again saying , if you cant make dinner let me know just out of respect , she finally text back saying "im busy " not even a "thanks but no thanks just a flat out im "busy ".didnt even txt me to say thanks for the offer of letting me stay phoned her last night and said you could have had the decency to text me back and say no you couldn't make it but thanks anyway , she said "i told you i was busy and i have been on a downer sorry " , still no exuse i said even a text would have done , i then reminded her that she could stay here , she didnt seem to bothered , truth is im fed up of offering to help her and her not having the decency to get back to say thanks or no thanks , ohh and i forgot i text her a week ago saying i got £300 she could borrow to pay the rent ...and yes you guessed it not even a thanks ..just turned her phone off.
2011 Posted May 30, 2011 Posted May 30, 2011 Hi Danny Sounds like she is one of these independent types who hates help from other people, pretty much an ungrateful character as well but she might think you're using the excuse of her being in dire straits as a way to get back with her. It sounds like you are wasting an awful lot of time and energy on someone who is best left to their own devices and to stew in their own soup so as to speak. You cannot change her just go NC and wipe her from your life bud. I went through this too, different circumstances but same attitude totally ungrateful and a real bitch if you ask me but hey ho! 2011
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