Rozyo20 Posted May 30, 2011 Posted May 30, 2011 this is something i want to tell to my husband other woman i am not mad at her because i know she is just a victim so dont judge me. Dear OW i hope that ur love for my stbxh is true because if its not he is going to make ur life a living hell, i know you guys have been together for only 9 months but i been with this man for 5 years. i know how he is, he has jealousy issues something u already encounter but wait it gets worse!, he will isolate you from you friends and family than ask u to be with him forever or he will commit suicide something also u have already encounter but wait it gets even better when you dont listen to him he will physically hurt you. yes its true you see i am his 3rd victim but i did not have the courage to leave him since i wasnt allowed to have a job and because of my 2 kids you have liberated me from a living hell thank you i truly thank you from the bottom of my heart i do not hate you, for i have only met u once but i feel sorry cause the charm will wear off in a few months. i wish you luck and i hope u can free ur self soon enough so have fun with my Husband! sincerely The Wife
scatterd Posted May 30, 2011 Posted May 30, 2011 You put as it is the ow does not understand always what they are getting their selfs into.I am glad she helped you to free your self I would thank her also.I hope you find a wonderful man and a wonderful future.:bunny:
whichwayisup Posted May 30, 2011 Posted May 30, 2011 this is something i want to tell to my husband other woman i am not mad at her because i know she is just a victim so dont judge me. Dear OW i hope that ur love for my stbxh is true because if its not he is going to make ur life a living hell, i know you guys have been together for only 9 months but i been with this man for 5 years. i know how he is, he has jealousy issues something u already encounter but wait it gets worse!, he will isolate you from you friends and family than ask u to be with him forever or he will commit suicide something also u have already encounter but wait it gets even better when you dont listen to him he will physically hurt you. yes its true you see i am his 3rd victim but i did not have the courage to leave him since i wasnt allowed to have a job and because of my 2 kids you have liberated me from a living hell thank you i truly thank you from the bottom of my heart i do not hate you, for i have only met u once but i feel sorry cause the charm will wear off in a few months. i wish you luck and i hope u can free ur self soon enough so have fun with my Husband! sincerely The Wife Glad you are divorcing this turd! The OW may or may not believe you.. Get some counselling in to help you rid of the demons he gave you during your marriage. Anyone who goes through that type of bad relationship, should have some form of therapy just to help heal themselves. Good luck and don't look back! Be happy, smile and enjoy your freedom.
Author Rozyo20 Posted May 30, 2011 Author Posted May 30, 2011 oh i know! he is emotionally and physically abusive! and honestly i don't think she understand from what i know she is a great woman i do hope her the best i am going to counseling. the day i met her she told me that i could not get him back not that i want to i just smiled and said thank you her face was priceless!
Ms. Red Posted May 31, 2011 Posted May 31, 2011 oh i know! he is emotionally and physically abusive! and honestly i don't think she understand from what i know she is a great woman i do hope her the best i am going to counseling. the day i met her she told me that i could not get him back not that i want to i just smiled and said thank you her face was priceless! Good for you. I've thought of saying that to my estranged husband's girlfriend too.
26pointblue Posted May 31, 2011 Posted May 31, 2011 This is heartbreaking. I'm so sorry for all you've gone through. At least now you're free of him & he's someone else's problem. My xMM had jealous & controlling tendencies too. He wanted so much from me & in the end gave me nothing. I started to see that his wife had given him everything for so long only for him to turn around & crap all over her by cheating with me. Sometimes I think these men want everything but are incapable of giving anything but cruelty. :-( Things will get better for you now, I wish you all the best.
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