robdrm32 Posted May 30, 2011 Posted May 30, 2011 I have a g/f of about a month and she is a very nice girl, good heart doesn't lie, beautiful and family oriented. The problem is she says how much she likes me, thinks that she feels stronger than i do yet when we are together I never feel what she says through her actions. Sometimes its just insulting and disrespectful, but i know she doesn't mean to be, which is what she always says. The only time i seem to gain her attention/focus is when she can tell i'm upset or annoyed. It's like I rarely get the sense she is into me when we are together. Sometimes i think she has ADD, and when we talk about it she just makes excuses because i see her interact with other people entirely different, focused and interested in them. And when we do talk i'm always calm, never yell or put her down and i'm always respectful of her. She is a virgin and we've only made out with a little touching on my part. So i think that plays a big part. I've told her a few times how i need to feel wanted, need more attention and focus. Not constant, like all over me, just when i go to hug and kiss not to pull away so quickly and things like that. I'm wondering how much should i keep trying? I feel like if i keep bringing things up its just going to make her more nervous around me, but I can't keep going like this ignoring my needs. It's as if she just likes the idea of having me as a boyfriend rather than the actual practice. We are supposed to talk today or tomorrow but i have alot to say but i don't know that it will change anything and i don't want to bombard her because she doesn't deal well with confrontation. Any input is appreciated.
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