shellonly8 Posted May 30, 2011 Posted May 30, 2011 Have settled for a stable man who pays the bills and doesn't run around but verbally abuses me. No kids and no real reason to stay aside from habit. I don't bieve n me ne more and so unhappy. He gave up about a year ago and I'm ready to move on 2. Just scared and lazy I guess. Ive been sitting back allowing him 2 control every thing and it is BAD. Conflicts r never resolved and I'm isolated and broken. I have a job but no car; how to really end it??
Exit Posted May 30, 2011 Posted May 30, 2011 Ah... that reminds me of my father. "I don't go drink at the bars, I don't hit any of you, I get the bills paid", yeah.... but you still treat us all like ****, so you're no saint. Leaving will never be easy or enjoyable. If you're waiting for the magical day to come along when you can shake hands and leave each other with no pain from either of you, keep dreaming. I'm sorry for what you're experiencing but you need to know that if these feelings you're having aren't going to go away, then the best thing you can do for yourself and for him is to just get the process going as soon as possible. There is happiness out there for you somewhere, but it sounds like it isn't here.
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