srcolema Posted May 30, 2011 Posted May 30, 2011 I was dating this guy for about 14 months he is five years younger than me and was jobless, he made me so happy, he would make me laugh all the time, he would have stuff for me before I even thought of it, and the sex was good. I moved him in with me, I guess he got comfortable he stop doing what he did at first, I let it go for a little while. Then we started to have problems I would ask him to do something and he would do it to shut me up then he would stop again. Then I started to ask him to get a job so he looked, no luck and he has a criminal record. I understand it is a little harder to get a job. So he would get these under the table jobs that he bitched about talking about it isn't conducive to his growth, so I told him I don't give a **** what's conducive to your growth it's a job until you find something better. Needless to say I broke up with him. Now he has his own place, going to school, and working part time. The only thing is that he had to pawn his computer, his game system, and he dropped two classes. So I fell like he is doing better but it's half-ass. Now he feels like he is growing up and I should give him another chance.
TaraMaiden Posted May 30, 2011 Posted May 30, 2011 No. Your motives are all wrong. You give him a second chance because you love him and you can't live without him, and he loves you and he can't live without you. Anything else is just a prop. It won't work....
Author srcolema Posted May 30, 2011 Author Posted May 30, 2011 I was just wondering what do u mean my motives? I don't think it will work either because we are on two different levels. I told him that I don't love him like he loves me and I just can find what I like that he did for me not how I feel without him or how he made me feel.He still wants me back
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