Renzo Posted May 30, 2011 Posted May 30, 2011 Before everyone of you get so jumpy about what a jerk I am, let me start off that she cheated first with my then best friend David and worst part is I had to catch them (literally). Stupid me decides to take her back after all that nonstoppable pleading and crying she does for days. Fast Forward: It's been 3 yrs since that and obviously never really got over it (though I tried and she still expresses remorse) so just recently I did it with her older virgin cousin. She's 30 years old and wanted to get over it so I accepted it. We then did it like about 5-6 more times and was then she was no longer in pain. Yes 2 wrongs don't make a right but I was beyond hurt and humiliated. However, I was thinking it would be worked out and afterall think I still love my GF. She doesn't know about my cheating, is this even worth trying now? If I decide to continue the relationship, can I keep her feeling guilty while never revealing mine? To be honest, I don't have too much regret over my cheating, well some but not much as she did.
Bryanp Posted May 30, 2011 Posted May 30, 2011 I really do not have advise for your present situation but the fact that you literally caught your girlfriend screwing your best friend behind your back says it all. This clearly showed that she had no respect for you whatsoever and clearly got off engaging in such a double betrayal toward you. I think you were very foolish accepting her back. How could she engage in anymore humiliation toward you? I think you would have to have major self-esteem issues to settle for someone like this. What you did now shows that you never really got over it. I would suggest to move on and find someone else you can really respect and someone who can really respect you.
Author Renzo Posted May 30, 2011 Author Posted May 30, 2011 I guess I can settle for her cousin. It's been 3 months since we started going out while my stupid GF is clueless about it. How about if I leave GF for cousin?
Mimolicious Posted May 31, 2011 Posted May 31, 2011 I think all 3 of ya'll should just get together. I amm not sure which one is worse than the other. Really?! The cousin is no better than your GF, if you really think about it. I guess it must run in the blood to be skanks. Let's see, wife the cousin up and when shacks one of your friends or relatives don't complaint. I hope you really don't expect any better. After all, she is such a charmer screwing her cousin's bf.
Author Renzo Posted May 31, 2011 Author Posted May 31, 2011 U and ur GF are two sides of the same coin, both of u r cheaters, her cousin is no difference than both of u coz she betrayed ur GF, do what u want.She made me this way. Maybe if she wouldn't have cheated on me then it would have been a different story, I would have been Mr. Good Guy still. Needlessly I'm about to break up with stupid GF. Regarding her cousin, I asked her out but she refused it. She only wants a casual relationship but nothing serious. I really thought it would work out with her and that I finally found the right woman.
Author Renzo Posted May 31, 2011 Author Posted May 31, 2011 After all, she is such a charmer screwing her cousin's bf. I admit at first it was revenge I wanted after 3 years. I waited that long to finally act out. As time went by (those 3 months we started dating) I began liking her and thought she was different from my soon to be ex gf. I'm really her first so I thought she would accept me as her BF but turns it she doesn't want to.
Mimolicious Posted June 1, 2011 Posted June 1, 2011 I admit at first it was revenge I wanted after 3 years. I waited that long to finally act out. As time went by (those 3 months we started dating) I began liking her and thought she was different from my soon to be ex gf. I'm really her first so I thought she would accept me as her BF but turns it she doesn't want to. With all due respect, you are insane! LOL! Hone, let's be for real... she is the cousin of your GF. If she had any scrupples, you would have never banged her and the same goes for you. Don't go in this blind either. If you want to be a dog and sleep with cousins, then at least own it. I get the sense that you are young and all but this kind of behavior unfortunately may mess up future opportunities. You'd be surprise how long a bad rep lasts... Christmas will be interesting at your GF's house!
Author Renzo Posted June 1, 2011 Author Posted June 1, 2011 (edited) With all due respect, you are insane! LOL! Hone, let's be for real... she is the cousin of your GF. If she had any scrupples, you would have never banged her and the same goes for you. Don't go in this blind either. If you want to be a dog and sleep with cousins, then at least own it. I get the sense that you are young and all but this kind of behavior unfortunately may mess up future opportunities. You'd be surprise how long a bad rep lasts... Christmas will be interesting at your GF's house!What about my GF? She banged my ex best friend and he was like a brother to me. We've known each other since early childhood and his parents' were my parents' friends too. How do you think I felt when I caught her with my ''friend''? Yet, I still tried working it out then and didn't told anyone about this (I didn't rat on her at all, so I was nice.. I'm other guys wouldn't have kept quiet about it). Till this day my parents and others don't know the real reason we haven't spoken since. I just wanted to slowly crawl into a tunnel and die there. I was too devastated that at times nothing but hurtful words would come out of my mouth such as ''dirty slut'' or ''stupid w****'' (well not always but sometimes whenever I got reminded). Then at one time I just gave up, become more gentle but then started thinking about getting even. If you're hurt for sooo long and were deeply humiliated, you feel paralyze at first but then anger takes over. Once rage hits up, hardly anything will stop you at getting back at the one person you never thought would hurt you like this. Hell one time I almost got into a fight with a random guy who grabbed my GF from behind. So she cheats and humiliates me, yet I still defended her thought she didn't deserved it. Edited June 1, 2011 by Renzo
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