Manufan5 Posted May 30, 2011 Posted May 30, 2011 She broke up with me a week ago telling me I deserve better, we got back together, two days ago, today she told me she made out with a guy a week before we broke up and been texting till couple of days ago (the guy is the person she was only "talking to" before me. I suggested we stay together and work on our relationship, she didnt want to because she feels that I deserve to be with someone better. A little bit ago, we were talking on the phone, I was telling her how I only want her and not the other girls that try to flirt with me and stuff, and I told her how my co-workers attitude changed after she heard we broke up, she got mad hung up and hung up on me, I called her back she answer and told me she got nothing to say and hung up again, I called her back again she told me not to ****ing called her ever again and hung up on me. I left her I voice mail saying if I wanted to be with the co worker I wouldn't call her and try to be with her and crying at her house, and I texted her but no response.. I'm confused i don't know why she got mad, and I don't know about the whole situation I really love her, I'm crushed. She tells me I'm perfect yet she made out with another guy.
OldOnTheInside Posted May 30, 2011 Posted May 30, 2011 she feels that I deserve to be with someone better In my experience, the kind of girls that talk like that, are the ones with self-esteem issues. Sounds harsh but you will want to avoid forming romantic relationships with those types. It's a set up to heartbreak.
bikinibeach Posted May 30, 2011 Posted May 30, 2011 I was telling her how I only want her and not the other girls that try to flirt with me and stuff, and I told her how my co-workers attitude changed after she heard we broke up........... I voice mail saying if I wanted to be with the co worker I wouldn't call her this was a dumb move. but if she cheated on you well... maybe it worked out for the best after all. i'd be pissed too! it sounds like something you'd say to TRY and make someone jealous. totally unnecessary. you deserved being hung up on. she deserved your jerky comment. the end.
rafallus Posted May 30, 2011 Posted May 30, 2011 (edited) I'm confused i don't know why she got mad, and I don't know about the whole situation I really love her, I'm crushed. She tells me I'm perfect yet she made out with another guy. It was a smokescreen. You don't turn her on, but she doesn't really want to insult you to the face, so she says that you're perfect (like "too perfect" aka "boring"). And she got mad because she still enjoys your attention and idea that she has you on the leash. You talking about other girls goes against that idea. Edited May 30, 2011 by rafallus
seibert253 Posted May 31, 2011 Posted May 31, 2011 Lets see if I got this right? You GF cheats on you, then continues you to treat you like sh#t. You are still in this relationship because??????????????? You deserve better.
Author Manufan5 Posted May 31, 2011 Author Posted May 31, 2011 Lets see if I got this right? You GF cheats on you, then continues you to treat you like sh#t. You are still in this relationship because??????????????? You deserve better. I love her idk why I can't let her go
Chi townD Posted May 31, 2011 Posted May 31, 2011 Okay, your post was a little confusing, especially the attitude of co-workers...but, whatever. When a girl doesn't want to work things out with you and says that you deserve better is because they are feeling extremely guilty about what they did and being with you would be a constant reminder of the things they did in the past to you. They would rather cut that out of their lives and cut out that constant reminder. So, it lives me to believe that something more than kissing was going on here and you're not getting the whole story. Therefore, cut you loose before you find out. A simple kiss at a weak moment can be forgiven, but to throw any a relationship over said kiss. Somethings not right here.
Author Manufan5 Posted May 31, 2011 Author Posted May 31, 2011 Update She called me yesterday morning and said she wants to work it out I agreed went over her house and watched a movie with her, I did notice though she put her phone in her purse and put her purse in her room, also she was a bit distant (closer than the past couple of weeks but distant compared to like 3 months ago), and today when I called Her to talk, we barely talked for like 10 mins then she said she gotta go finish doing her hair for work, and she called me an hour later saying that she got glued watching law and order, then she said she gotta drive and doesn't want to talk ( couple of months ago she would talk when drive doing her hair etc..), and said gonna text me, she texted me like 4-5 times and that's it.. Idk I'm confused, we are going out to watch a movie tonight Idk what to do, like I can't think straight
Memphis Raines Posted May 31, 2011 Posted May 31, 2011 sounds like she broke up with you, giving you that line of bs about you deserving better, then things didn't work out like she had thought with someone else and kept you on a back burner. dump her.
Memphis Raines Posted May 31, 2011 Posted May 31, 2011 I love her idk why I can't let her go no offense, but its the little head thinking for the big one. why love someone that would screw you over, leave you, then when she didn't get her way, come back to you? she was looking for the bigger, better deal, didn't find it, and came back to you in the meantime. she'll look to better deal you in the future, I guarantee it.
Mimolicious Posted May 31, 2011 Posted May 31, 2011 I love her idk why I can't let her go Let me take a shot at it... You can't let her go because she treats you like dirt. Grow a pair and keep it moving. Unless you want to call the neighborhood's bike your "Girlfriend" and proudly walk around holding hands while she kisses other boys. Find yourself someone with better principles. Better yet, work on your insecurities and you'll see how you will never allow another chick to ever treat you like shyte. Good luck! Don't take her a$$ back... Chances are she will take you for a sucka!
Mimolicious Posted May 31, 2011 Posted May 31, 2011 Update She called me yesterday morning and said she wants to work it out I agreed went over her house and watched a movie with her, I did notice though she put her phone in her purse and put her purse in her room, also she was a bit distant (closer than the past couple of weeks but distant compared to like 3 months ago), and today when I called Her to talk, we barely talked for like 10 mins then she said she gotta go finish doing her hair for work, and she called me an hour later saying that she got glued watching law and order, then she said she gotta drive and doesn't want to talk ( couple of months ago she would talk when drive doing her hair etc..), and said gonna text me, she texted me like 4-5 times and that's it.. Idk I'm confused, we are going out to watch a movie tonight Idk what to do, like I can't think straight Don't I miss playing these games! It's called "Playing the Field". WhyTF are you spending $ on taking this trick to the movies????? Look it's obvious she doesn't respect you and doesn't really care if she hurts your feelings. Even if she did care, her thrills are far more exciting and worth the pain she is going to cause you. RUN AND RUN FAST.... Actually, tonight when you don't show up to take her to the movies and she calls, tell her that you can't talk cause you're watching a movie. Works wonders! Will trigger the psycho in her. Try it and you'll see!
Author Manufan5 Posted May 31, 2011 Author Posted May 31, 2011 Don't I miss playing these games! It's called "Playing the Field". WhyTF are you spending $ on taking this trick to the movies????? Look it's obvious she doesn't respect you and doesn't really care if she hurts your feelings. Even if she did care, her thrills are far more exciting and worth the pain she is going to cause you. RUN AND RUN FAST.... Actually, tonight when you don't show up to take her to the movies and she calls, tell her that you can't talk cause you're watching a movie. Works wonders! Will trigger the psycho in her. Try it and you'll see! I wish I can do that, if I do that she will be more than happy to be with the other guy prolly, I'm stuck idk what to do, I know what you guys are saying is right I just can't do it idk why
Bryanp Posted May 31, 2011 Posted May 31, 2011 It is clear that she does not respect you and why should she? Nobody and I mean nobody respects a doormat. If you do not respect yourself then who will?
Mimolicious Posted June 1, 2011 Posted June 1, 2011 I wish I can do that, if I do that she will be more than happy to be with the other guy prolly, I'm stuck idk what to do, I know what you guys are saying is right I just can't do it idk why AND WhyTF should you care if she will be "more than happy" to go be with the other guy? Sounds like you are not letting her go because it is a matter of "winning" or "keeping" her. If she wants to be with whoever, THEN LET HER! As long as it is not on your time. You honestly think she is not going to two-time you regardless? If you actually want to teach her a lesson- dump her, find yourself another boo and let her see how much happier you are without her skank self.
TheFamilyMan Posted June 1, 2011 Posted June 1, 2011 In my experience, the kind of girls that talk like that, are the ones with self-esteem issues. Sounds harsh but you will want to avoid forming romantic relationships with those types. It's a set up to heartbreak. this is pretty accurate from my experience in the past.
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