funkstar Posted May 30, 2011 Posted May 30, 2011 Hi everyone! So I've been seeing this guy once or twice a week for 3 months. From the beginning I felt as if he was going to be bad news and every time I see him afterwards I feel like crap as I never know whether I'm going to see him again. I became infatuated and started obsessing a little bit which hasn't really helped me have a clear perspective on the situation. He borrows money off me asks me to do him favors and the moment I ask him for something he was busy. He never calls only texts. I pulled back a month ago because I was overwhelmed and felt like I was doing all the pursuing, in this time he asked me out twice. We went to a concert together last week and in the cab on the way he asked how old I was as it is my birthday next week. I was disappointed. Anyway I just need some advice. Do you think he is just using me for sex and favors at his convenience? Do you think I should cut ties with him? It's my birthday next week and I'm not sure what to do. Should I ask him if he intends to keep seeing me or just forget about him?
Ruby Slippers Posted May 30, 2011 Posted May 30, 2011 Is this post for real? Do you think he is just using me for sex and favors at his convenience? Yes. Do you think I should cut ties with him? Yes. It's my birthday next week and I'm not sure what to do. Dump him now, never speak to him again EVER, and have a fun birthday. Should I ask him if he intends to keep seeing me or just forget about him? No. You dump him, no ifs, ands, or butts, and move on.
whichwayisup Posted May 30, 2011 Posted May 30, 2011 Hi everyone! So I've been seeing this guy once or twice a week for 3 months. From the beginning I felt as if he was going to be bad news and every time I see him afterwards I feel like crap as I never know whether I'm going to see him again. I became infatuated and started obsessing a little bit which hasn't really helped me have a clear perspective on the situation. He borrows money off me asks me to do him favors and the moment I ask him for something he was busy. He never calls only texts. I pulled back a month ago because I was overwhelmed and felt like I was doing all the pursuing, in this time he asked me out twice. We went to a concert together last week and in the cab on the way he asked how old I was as it is my birthday next week. I was disappointed. Anyway I just need some advice. Do you think he is just using me for sex and favors at his convenience? Do you think I should cut ties with him? It's my birthday next week and I'm not sure what to do. Should I ask him if he intends to keep seeing me or just forget about him? He isn't into you... He makes you feel bad and you aren't happy. He's making you feel anxious too..Not knowing what is really happening. Why do this to yourself? Just distance yourself and if he calls you to ask you out, just say you're not interested anymore. No need for a big explanation or any details.. The guy is a jerk and seems like he's using you, only needs you when he feels like it. You deserve better so don't let this ahole treat you like crap! walk away while you still can!
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