Reddog7 Posted May 30, 2011 Posted May 30, 2011 I'm in my last year of college and live at home (which isn't necessarily a problem). I've known this girl for a few years and we recently started seeing each other (made out a few times) and all was going very well. Now the complicated part: she is a single mom (she's a year younger than myself) she also lives at home, she lives an hour away (she commutes an hour to get to school. A lot of work, i know) and I get the distinct feeling that she has some self confidence issues. Before summer began, we would talk pretty frequently (mostly txting), but now that school is done it seems like she is completely distant and hardly ever talks with me. Her custody has not changed and neither has her work schedule (mine has increased, but that hast held me back in anyway) so idk what's up. Also might be note worthy: we play words with friends (scrabble for those who dont know) on our iPhones pretty frequently and though I can hardly get ahold of her via txt and calling, she still keeps playing words (which confuses the crap out of me...) From what I know, dating as a single mom is very difficult and I've done what I can to make things simple and uncomplicated for her. Distance is not a problem for me, I don't mind the drive, but not communicating with me is driving me nuts. It's been a few days since I tried to get ahold of her and I've more or less decided to let things go if she doesn't try to get ahold of me. I am more than willing to go te extra mile for this girl, but I am not going to allow myself to appear clingy and won't try to keep getting ahold of her if she doesn't try to get ahold of me. Any thoughts?
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