quietGuy13 Posted May 29, 2011 Posted May 29, 2011 They have tons of friends, they have their lives. That's why they always lie when i meet them in public places saying "yes let's keep in touch" and they never keep in touch because they already have lives. tons of friends, probably guy friends too and they party or whatever. So they're not interested. How do you meet girls who actually have time??? Maybe if i found girls who were loners, there would be a better chance that they actually do keep in touch and don't ignore me.
sanskrit Posted May 29, 2011 Posted May 29, 2011 If you serve up enough social value in their face, they make time. Sadly, the guy's job today is to either truthfully or dishonestly represent himself as a BBD (bigger better deal) prospect than what she has going on in her life already to get noticed. Being a humble, average interesting person doesn't cut it. You have to play the status game.
Sanman Posted May 29, 2011 Posted May 29, 2011 Agreed that if a woman is truly interested in you, she will make the time to chat, go out, etc. I have dated several women who work 6 days/wk and we still saw each other at least once a week.
Mrlonelyone Posted May 30, 2011 Posted May 30, 2011 While what the above posters have said is true in many many cases it is not true in all cases. Yes some of the women you meet out in the world really are just so busy that no matter how big of a deal you were they could not make time for an actual relationship with you. The strategy they suggest will work with such a busy body if you can turn her on and give her a quick fling...but not an actual relationship. In fact the really busy partying carrer motivated woman is often looking for a man who's not relationship minded. You are relationship minded right? So just ignore women who really truly aren't looking for that and keep moving. You will find a woman who wants a relationship too.
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