Stripey100 Posted May 29, 2011 Posted May 29, 2011 Hi, I have been with my boyfriend for a year and a half but after a year we broke up for 4 months then got back together. We broke up because neither of us had enough space and we were arguing all the time. My boyfriend told me that he missed being single because he enjoyed spending time alone and he didn't have that anymore, he said that he liked to just be alone sometimes and not have anyone else around. Since getting back together we have been careful to give each other our own space and we haven't argued at all really. My problem though is that he only ever wants to see me when he feels like it, which is like 2 nights a week and he never makes an effort to see me when I want to see him. I feel like we're more acquaintances than partners and I think he feels the same but he's happy with this. The thing is, as well as missing him because I want to spend a bit more time together, when he's not with me he spends all his time with our mutual girl friend. They go out for food together, they spend every evening together watching tv or talking in his room and they have to be in constant contact when they're not together. I don't think anything is going on between them but I get so jealous and annoyed at the fact that he wants to spend all his time with her and doesn't want to see me. I've bought it up with him and he just said that he thinks we spend enough time together as it is. I'm not going to see him for 3 months after this week and he doesn't even seem bothered, in fact he doesn't even want to do anything before I go because he said he has to save up for this girls birthday present. When I ask him if he'll come round he just asks why I don't go round to his but I always go to his house and he lives in a bad neighbourhood and I don't like walking around it alone. Am I over reacting? I don't know if I should bring it up with him cause I think he'll get annoyed and protective of the girl.. Thanks x
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