guccimane99 Posted May 29, 2011 Posted May 29, 2011 This thread is for anyone who has ever been dumped. I will tell you that it is one of the hardest things you will go through in your life, but with time it will only get better. Im not a guru or a therapist or even some guy with a fancy phd. I am just a average person that wants to help out the world and wants to make everyone happy. Im not old im only twenty years old but in my short time on this earth i have learned alot. You will one day wake up happy with a big smile on your face and you wont be thinking about you ex. I know what your thinking is this guy on crack. the answer is no. The easiest way to getting over someone is just by deleting their number and blocking it and deleting your facebook. Just dissapear from there radar if you can and go out and live your life. Just smile and remember that you have people that care about you such as your friends, family, and the people of loveshack. No one can tell if your ex is going to come back i can tell you i heard from alot of my friends mouth that my ex would come back and she never did. I look back at myself and learned alot through my break up and realized something that you need to realize. That is you are worth someone who will appreciate you and love you like you love ur ex. Someone who truly knows how special you are and who doesnt take you for granted. Someone who knows that you deserve the best and that is what they are going to give you. I believe that if someone truly loved you they would accept you for your faults and love you for them too. I am a big believer of the quote "You dont know what you got till its gone." We as humans take alot for granted. I know from my first realtionship i didnt know what i had till it was gone. You should always put ur best foot forward and live everyday as if it were your last. You never know when your life may end or when someone special may walk out. The best thing any dumpee can do is realize you did your best and that you would not have changed the relationship at all. Never EVER EVER blame yourself it takes two to make a relationship it takes two to break a relationship. I wish you the best of luck and one day you will be happy.
MrDrama Posted May 29, 2011 Posted May 29, 2011 good stuff man, im going thru a lot of **** right now and I know in the end I will be good. It has to hurt before it gets good again.
reimeivn Posted May 29, 2011 Posted May 29, 2011 You dont know what you have until it was gone. I do regret not telling my ex how much he made me feel happy sometimes. But look at the bigger picture of how much he made me unhappy that it became my mood,... You know, people who love you know when you are happy, and when you are not. When they say that they dont seem to make you happy no matter how hard they try, and you realized it and told them that they did, they still dont believe you. They gave up on making you feel happy, that is. They are back to make themselves happy only by not making efforts and blaming you. And I let that happened. I acknowledge it. No blaming game. No regret. If you are just being dumped, acknowledge that you are accountable for things, but do not blame yourself.
reimeivn Posted May 29, 2011 Posted May 29, 2011 I know the heart has to go through a lot, but keep your mind clear. You can do that, think with your brain, know that at the very least, you do not want to be with somebody that consider you or your love disposable. Because you and your love are not. Know that before anybody helps you see that in the near future.
MrDrama Posted May 29, 2011 Posted May 29, 2011 Question should I block my ex and her new boyfriend off facebook? We have a lot of mutual friends and we all work together. It is just going to suck seeing there pictures and **** that are going to come very soon. I really wish we all didnt work together.
Author guccimane99 Posted May 29, 2011 Author Posted May 29, 2011 Question should I block my ex and her new boyfriend off facebook? We have a lot of mutual friends and we all work together. It is just going to suck seeing there pictures and **** that are going to come very soon. I really wish we all didnt work together. Honestly, I would just delete my facebook it makes life more intresting and better. If you need to block both ot them. I am sorry that you work with them. Also don't talk down about them i know u probably think he isn't half the man you are and isn't going to treat her that well. Just say to urself i am a good person and dont talk crap about either one just wish her the best and tell her that you wish her the best of luck. Then tell her it would be best if you left me alone. That way she can't crap on you saying u were a dbag or a piece. She will only have good thoughts my man. I know how much it hurts i feel for a girl and i got blindsided a good friend sent me a message saying "I didn't know your ex was datting someone." then sent me the link and she made the picture of her kissing him on the cheek. I heard it all from her u were to good blah blah blah. I freaked that night and talked **** about him. This is something i really wish i did not do i was just pissed that she lied about him and her and them just being friends and her kissing me in my car and saying there nothing. I look back and say i treated her well and she knows it she told me dozens of times. I aint got nothing to go back like you. You just need to do what i do and as jay-z says on to the next one. U'll find someone and shell will get jealous its usually what happens but don't expect her to come back. I havent had any ex's come back and to be honest rihanna is b.s. with her song "make me feel like im the only girl in the world." i'll tell u from experience if you make any girl feel like that she will run. My ex's are true stories of that. Best thing you can do is let her go like your doing never text her if she texts you DO NOT ANSWER. Just delete it as soon as you get it. That way you wont think about it or even read into the message.
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