quietGuy13 Posted May 29, 2011 Posted May 29, 2011 I have heard time and time again that you won't meet good girls in a club. that it's better to meet girls who you want to have a relationship with in supermarkets, etc. So my question is.. Who goes to nightclubs. whta type of people.. and what is their purpose? From what i've seen in TV and youtube videos about clubs, all i see is a bunch of crazy people either: -dancing doing sex motions -dancing crazy and having fun but a bit tooo much fun -sometimes they have simulated sex -drink -talk, argue and fight -It's really noisy and bad to ears but the people don't seem to care. -Sometimes bands come and play and it's really loud, i don't know how those people talke it. Anyways, from the picture i painted there, it does seem fun IF you like noise and crazyness. I've never gone to a club but I know that alot of hot sexy attractive girls go there so it kinda makes me wanna go but I wouldn't go. It's too loud and then i'm very different from all the people that go there(i'm quiet). so there's no point. But i wonder what i would do? I would probably just sit bymyself and eat or drink water.
sanskrit Posted May 29, 2011 Posted May 29, 2011 People with social value go to clubs to be seen, be part of a semi exclusive scene (why they are called clubs), dance, drink and do drugs in a relatively private environment with lots of stuff to look at. Clubs are not to meet people unless you are either a) an average woman with lots of makeup and revealing clothes, or b) a top 95th percentile man in looks, wealth or power, or c) a man who can convince women that he is in fact "b" despite that he is not
Dust Posted May 29, 2011 Posted May 29, 2011 Clubs are a horrible place to meet women. I think they can be fun if you enjoy getting together with your friends and drinking. If you are single you might as well hit on the women. The thing is don’t go to the night club if you don’t enjoy them. Even if you enjoy them don’t make it your sole avenue to meet a girl. I mean you can meet one, the thing is its much more likely to happen while walking your dog in the park then on a crowded dance floor. When I was single though I went after all the high risk situations and it some times worked out. I got dates from night clubs. I got dates from waitress’s who had served me meals. I even got dates from random Myspace msgs back in the day. But to have relied on any of these things would have been foolish. I also want to add that relying on internet dating is just as foolish as relying on night clubs. Not to mention online dating isn’t really fun. Your bread and butter should be the real world. If you are a single man strive to put yourself in situations around the type of women you like. That means if you want to do something professionally pursuing that. It means if you always wanted to take a trip and travel pursuing that. If you get out into the world instead of staying home you will meet women. Your local super market is a great place to meet women just as an example. Seriously when I was single it was like an infinite amount of different hot girls shopping. I think I only saw the same one twice. Just take a walk around the mall and there will be even more women shopping. The best place of course to meet a woman is something you have a common interest in. Like if you are at a concert for a band you like or a convention for art you enjoy etc.
Emissary Posted May 29, 2011 Posted May 29, 2011 Nightclubs really aren't a good place to meet new people, they're more or less just as you described, the biggest drawback being that they are LOUD, how can you meet somebody if they can barely hear you, you don't have any oppurtunity to be charming, witty, or just nice. Body language can only take a person so far. Not that nightclubs can't be fun, I go every now and then with friends or co-workers, just I already know these people, we don't need to talk, we can just dance and get hammered.
NeoGen85 Posted May 29, 2011 Posted May 29, 2011 My friends and I like to go to the clubs ever once in awhile to simply let loose and have fun. But I never went there to find a girl for a serious relationship. Now I have seen some beautiful women, but the atmosphere makes it hard to grab the attention of a "serious" lady.
Jynxx Posted May 29, 2011 Posted May 29, 2011 I don't like dancing and the noise, I do like the VIP atmosphere. It's nice to get drunk with friends on ridiculous overpriced bottles, get downstairs, yell to some random goodlooking girls, get them to come to your vipbooth and take it from there. Sure, they most likely won't be keepers, but you know that in advance. You will also be in a more protected environment, as the bouncers will be overrepresented at any time. If I'm in a relationship, I hate going with my girlfriend. I don't mind going without her and being a wingman.
Jynxx Posted May 29, 2011 Posted May 29, 2011 Clubs are not to meet people unless you are either ... b) a top 95th percentile man in looks, wealth or power 95th percentile in wealth are basically (for 20s) ppl who make 100k per year. All other things being equal you're probably slightly more likely to get laid, but if you think it guarantees success you're plain wrong. Make that 2 mill per year and you'll notice a difference, but you'll still be less successfull than a jersey shore type of guy.
Kodo Posted May 30, 2011 Posted May 30, 2011 Who wants to date a girl who spends her time swapping saliva with randoms on a dance floor? If she's that easy to get she's that easy to lose.
alphamale Posted May 30, 2011 Posted May 30, 2011 nightclubs are for young good looking people who are marginally intelligent to pay high cover charges and drink way overpriced drinks so that they can make HUGE profits for the owner
irc333 Posted May 30, 2011 Posted May 30, 2011 It's a great place to have women rub up against/dance with you in close quarters, and they're too drunk to really care (or perhaps even enjoy) it.
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