coolheadal Posted May 29, 2011 Posted May 29, 2011 After going after her about what was going on now I see what the game play is. So for now on she not here like tonight she's gone. Came home with stuff you got at the supermarket and hand fed me a thing she likes to do. I don't mine, but anyway she was in here SUV ready to pull out of the driveway. I again ask her where are you going. This is a holiday weekend. She said out. But only she's doing it hanging out with her girl friends house. But she could do that with me. But told nothing has changed. Here we go again nothing has change bit. In her head she's fixed on the idea of it's best if we part ways. I told her she should get this another year. This way if you still fell the same then you can have what you want. What would be the point of me staying in this town where you're not there with me. She told me well you can do whatever you want. I told her you flip flop so many times you don't even know what your doing after of the time. She couldn't give me answer. She said it been years since she wanted to get out, but that's odd, didn't feel like that. As soon as we got this house I did notice that she never fulfilled what she was going to do for this house. Like clean it or take care of it. Everything it left on me. We had over 300 boxes when we came here and sure enough she hasn't even unpacked them. So now this is where we are. Nothing done by here. She told me she wanted to stay friends but she can't live with me and I still don't know why she's saying that. I don't bother her and I am just a loving husband, but I guess she just wanted her space but I am not to be here when she has her space. So her goal is now is to vacate the house either she goes or I stay here. I don't want to stay here if she's not here. I have another house I own so I'll go there and live and leave this town and everything behind. So she told me we can do this with lawyers or just sign papers. Odd way to put it. But this house will have to go up for sale. I don't know why she things I going to help her with her wacko mortgage that she had taken out without me and it's in 2 parts rate on both are high. Some months she hasn't paid it. Don't get me started on that one. Now she wants to get apartment and live on her own and no interest in getting married again. No kids or nothing. I believe now she never was going to have kids with me. She' worst! What do you all think?
2.50 a gallon Posted May 29, 2011 Posted May 29, 2011 Run Forest! Run! Sorry to say, but I don't think that this is savable. You deserve to share a life with someone who cares about you Do not sign papers without having an expert look at them
robf1971 Posted May 29, 2011 Posted May 29, 2011 Run Forest! Run! Sorry to say, but I don't think that this is savable. You deserve to share a life with someone who cares about you Do not sign papers without having an expert look at them Bingo Or Pack her stuff, put her out and find some renting housemates to allow you to afford the repayments.
Author coolheadal Posted May 29, 2011 Author Posted May 29, 2011 Today I was brave and started taking down the photos of us off the walls, while I was at it everything that was hanging on the walls too. I don't want to see her in my face. Around 11:40am I get a call from her cell to tell me her mom was making dinner at her house today did I want to go? But I'll tell you later on why she did call? Soon after that call about 15 to 20 minutes she came back to the house. Just to take things out of the refrig one thing I wanted to try out was gone after she left. Boy when it comes to food her family comes first and I come second. She said day 3 and the dishes are in the sink (hint) why don't you do it, but wait you don't do anything here I do it! Her messy dirty clothes are starting to pile up again and the clean dinning room tablet. I just take them off and dump them on the floor in the other pile she has made. Not going to mess up the house again. Before she drove off to her Mother's house (I should call it the loser pad) but I am too nice to say that to their faces. But they awful with me so I won't gone and she only called me to bring over the food that she had to bring to her Mother's house. She had no intention of picking me up to take over there. But told me her Mother had made her breakfast and then tomorrow dinner again. As I told her on the phone I wasn't going there and hanged up the phone! What type of papers could she have me to sign? I'll have to get someone to look at that then. Can't trust her now since she as pull this one. Once those papers are signed all car insurance will go up on her as I won't be putting her on my policy, she'll some more expenses to take care of. I am planing on going since this is not my house yet we have since prior to getting married. I wish I could go back in time and stop myself from meeting her.. What do you all think?
jamster Posted May 29, 2011 Posted May 29, 2011 Be thankful you don't have kids with her,do you suspect an affair?
Author coolheadal Posted May 29, 2011 Author Posted May 29, 2011 Be thankful you don't have kids with her,do you suspect an affair? She told me there wasn't any other guy. But then again she's kinky type of women. I had thought she has got out of that behavior. You know the type let the guy buy her a drink and flirt when she goes out with her girl friends to comedy clubs and bars. But now she's older in her mid 30's. Told me in 2010 that her doctor told her she can have kids in 2012 after she lost her weight. Now I was so happy when I hear that news. but she had lied and never wanted kids with me. I feel so sad about that part. We just have 2 dogs and I don't know what going to happen to them? They're huge now and depend on me. I've trained them so well. She won't take care of them or feed or give them water. She won't get their license or shots. Such a lazy wife I had ended up with and bossy also..
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