Tina747 Posted May 28, 2011 Posted May 28, 2011 (edited) Should I break the "No Contact Rule" Under This Circumstance? I recently went through a break up and started NC (No Contact) - and plan to maintain NC for at least 30 days in order to heal. Though, this is someone I would like to be friends with in the future and possibly getting back together but only after a period of NC since the pain of the breakup is still fresh. Note, he said he would also like to be friends and, so far, I believe him. Recently his Father fell very Ill. I sent one message to my Ex wishing his Father gets better. Is it cold for me to wait another month to follow up to see if my Ex is alright? Will he then not consider me someone who is a "friend" since I did not contact him again for a whole month? Or should I just let it be for now? Edited May 28, 2011 by Tina747 Correct
love4me2c Posted May 29, 2011 Posted May 29, 2011 I would not contact him. Also, it is not a good idea to attempt friendship. Either you're in or out. It is just going to delay your healing by taking you back to square one if it doesn't work out again.
23go4 Posted May 29, 2011 Posted May 29, 2011 I tried NC for 4 weeks no. I have gone to square one like 4 times now. Just when I feel I am getting over her, something comes up and I am back where I was.
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