lovelife242 Posted May 28, 2011 Posted May 28, 2011 ...In a non- threatening manner? Best way to get something started? Meant for someone in early 20s to meet people the same age. I'm talking about your average crowded beach during this hot time of year. Thanks.
D-Lish Posted July 25, 2011 Posted July 25, 2011 My friend and I met a group of guys in Mexico on the beach because they kept throwing their football in our direction- pretending to miss. They did it for two days in a row at the resort we were at, and we knew they wanted to talk to us. Finally- the football actually bounced and hit me in the leg- so they had to come over and apologize:laugh: We hung out with them for the rest of the week;)
U1987 Posted July 25, 2011 Posted July 25, 2011 My friend and I met a group of guys in Mexico on the beach because they kept throwing their football in our direction- pretending to miss. They did it for two days in a row at the resort we were at, and we knew they wanted to talk to us. Finally- the football actually bounced and hit me in the leg- so they had to come over and apologize:laugh: We hung out with them for the rest of the week;) *frantically scribbles in note book* Throw... objects... at... girls... Got it!
D-Lish Posted July 25, 2011 Posted July 25, 2011 *frantically scribbles in note book* Throw... objects... at... girls... Got it! HAHA, I just actually laughed out loud. Just never aim for the face:eek:
mo mo Posted July 25, 2011 Posted July 25, 2011 *frantically scribbles in note book* Throw... objects... at... girls... Got it! Yeaaa sometimes this works. I go to the beach often and I toss a football around to my friends. We don't pretend to miss though, we just kinda hope they will come and join us. Sometimes they do, sometimes they don't. Running into the water works too. Then you can talk about how cold the water is, or how refreshing, or how you suck at swimming, etc. UNFORTUNATELY in my area, a large majority of the women that go to the beach literally just lay on the sand all day. I will spend hours at the beach throwing the football, swimming, making beer runs, and I'll see the same chicks in the same spot the whole time. Pathetic. You hear that ladies? Laying on the beach looking cute isn't enough to get guys to talk to you. You have to move around a little bit.
GivenUp0083 Posted July 25, 2011 Posted July 25, 2011 Yeaaa sometimes this works. I go to the beach often and I toss a football around to my friends. We don't pretend to miss though, we just kinda hope they will come and join us. Sometimes they do, sometimes they don't. Running into the water works too. Then you can talk about how cold the water is, or how refreshing, or how you suck at swimming, etc. UNFORTUNATELY in my area, a large majority of the women that go to the beach literally just lay on the sand all day. I will spend hours at the beach throwing the football, swimming, making beer runs, and I'll see the same chicks in the same spot the whole time. Pathetic. You hear that ladies? Laying on the beach looking cute isn't enough to get guys to talk to you. You have to move around a little bit. This is good advice. Here's another idea: thinks about the women, they're at the beach, wanting to have fun and enjoy vacation/day off, they'd like to hang out with some dudes if they're single, right? Just go up to them, say hi, tell them you're on vacation and ask them if they want to join you and your buddy for a couple drinks later. Show confidence. You can do what the above guy said, which I do more in day to day life which I call "throwing a bone". You are just looking to see if she'll bite, and if she contributes to further conversation then you reel her in. If she ignores you, you didn't sacrifice or make much of an effort anyway so who cares. Remember, you want women who are interested from the beginning, I will never try to "convince" a woman to be interested. Sometimes just straight up asking them if they want to hang out or grab a drink can work too as some women prefer straightforwardness.
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