cheergirl Posted July 5, 2011 Posted July 5, 2011 You are SCARED? Really? Of what? Because you didn't respond to a lunch invite? Oh come on.... You are reading WAY too much into everything. He's throwing out fishing lines, and if you are smart you won't bite. End of story. He will find someone else to screw, and life will not change for you. I don't know if you are being overly-dramatic, but i'll take you at your word, you're scared because he knows he has his hook in you. I recognise myself in some of the things you said. He sounds like a terribly manipulative person and for that reason alone, avoid like the plague. Like others said, if he truly is a psycho (and he sounds like it) he'll move onto his next victim, like you never existed, consider yourself lucky...Walk out and don't look back... Good luck...
bentnotbroken Posted July 5, 2011 Posted July 5, 2011 WOW:eek: looking for reasons not to accept responsibility. No self control, it must be someone else's fault. Hmmmm.
Author Hedgehog Posted July 5, 2011 Author Posted July 5, 2011 You are SCARED? Really? Of what? Because you didn't respond to a lunch invite? Oh come on.... You are reading WAY too much into everything. He's throwing out fishing lines, and if you are smart you won't bite. End of story. He will find someone else to screw, and life will not change for you. I did and wrote some stuff while i was managing other people. He used my explosive character and provoqued me to write things. I am afraid he will unveal those things to these people. But thanks for support, i won't bite, not this time.
Author Hedgehog Posted July 5, 2011 Author Posted July 5, 2011 I don't know if you are being overly-dramatic, but i'll take you at your word, you're scared because he knows he has his hook in you. I recognise myself in some of the things you said. He sounds like a terribly manipulative person and for that reason alone, avoid like the plague. Like others said, if he truly is a psycho (and he sounds like it) he'll move onto his next victim, like you never existed, consider yourself lucky...Walk out and don't look back... Good luck... Thanks. It has been a month already and i almost succeded to move on, i felt much better when not thinking of him... But now again?! But i really felt strong by ignoring his request, i guess this is the way to go.
fooled once Posted July 6, 2011 Posted July 6, 2011 You are SCARED? Really? Of what? Because you didn't respond to a lunch invite? Oh come on.... You are reading WAY too much into everything. He's throwing out fishing lines, and if you are smart you won't bite. End of story. He will find someone else to screw, and life will not change for you. I still don't understand what power you think he has over you. You really think he is going to exact some revenge on you for not having lunch with him? Really?
Author Hedgehog Posted July 6, 2011 Author Posted July 6, 2011 It's not about lunch... I was always jumping like stupid on every email he sent me replying back with tons of info and tons of smileys. Not this time though, I decided I don't want any contact with him and I am sure he understood that, yes by one simple email, because it's extremely different than others. In any case, I am happy I had the strength not to reply in my regular way! And yes, the man is crap, I saw how he was treating people that didn't agree with his way of management so I am afraid of this happening to me now...
Lucky_One Posted July 6, 2011 Posted July 6, 2011 You don't work with him, so what is it that you think he is going to do to you? You are giving him WAY too much power.
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