Darkangelism Posted April 14, 2004 Posted April 14, 2004 well this one girl i met told my roomate that i was "interrogating" her by asking her questions, i then liked and said i didnt like her. I think i need to cross another one of the list. luckily i met a newer girl today.
hurtingandconfused Posted April 14, 2004 Posted April 14, 2004 Next time don't ask so many questions.
faux Posted April 14, 2004 Posted April 14, 2004 Woah. Major Deja Vu over this post. I swear that I read this same exact post a few nights ago, and you posted it, too, DA. Wow. Some people hate being asked questions, or are simply not used to it. I love being asked questions, no matter how many someone might have. I know that I have a right to not answer, and as long as the person asking respects that I am fine. If I get barraged by questions I just walk away for some breathing space. Something to try next time instead of asking questions: Make a lot of statements. Talk about something that might be found mutually interesting. I find that once I open up, and I generally do so right away and take control of conversation, the other person volunteers quite a bit of information. There are sneaky little ways to "trick" people into telling you things as well without asking any questions.
amerikajin Posted April 14, 2004 Posted April 14, 2004 DA, Don't worry, dude. It gets easier with each experience. You'll learn not to ask so many questions. Just a few to get the ball rolling and hopefully let the conversation flower from there. If it doesn't, just tell her to have a nice day and move on to someone more interested in conversation.
eye Posted April 14, 2004 Posted April 14, 2004 DA what were you questions? it doesnt matter how many questions u asked, it only matters if you get too personal. The purpose of asking questions to put her at ease, so ask light questions then ask related questions on the previous questions and so on...you'll know when to stop
tattoomytoe Posted April 14, 2004 Posted April 14, 2004 obvious that this was not THE Girl da, moving on.... ps- be yourself, even if that means asking questions...it probably was not even THAT many. My guess- maybe there was no conversation, so you were asking questions to try and start some.
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