Lockdown Posted May 28, 2011 Posted May 28, 2011 Everything I am, everything I have strived to be.....all of the mistakes I have learned from, all of my accomplishments.....all of my hard work..... All for nothing. It doesn't matter how educated, successful, charming, caring, romantic, passionate, funny, or loving I am..... It doesn't matter how hard I try.... In the end it's always the same....someone finds a reason to not wish to be a part of my life. I am a handsome guy, I'm reminded daily from friends, and people who have taken the time to work with me to repair my damaged sense of self esteem from years of abusive relationships.... I am a nice caring person despite these scars.... I am successful, polite, and very nice.....I am also brave, and not afraid to express myself when I need to..... I have come to the conclusion that some people are simply born into this world, and not meant to be with anyone.... I wish I was enough for someone else....because I'm tired of being enough for only me.
Jynxx Posted May 28, 2011 Posted May 28, 2011 Seems to me like you're closer to success than you think. You've figured out the hard part, got your life in order, got successfull, learned to charm people, are a hard worker etc. It feels like all of it doesn't matter because you're missing the last piece of the puzzle, but it really is huge. All you have to add now is the knowledge on how to build attraction with a woman. And while that sounds like the hardest job in the world and something that cannot be learned, it's not.
sanskrit Posted May 28, 2011 Posted May 28, 2011 If you live in NYC, there's part of your problem right there, very hard relationship market with all the Sex and the City types. If upstate, don't know what to tell you other than move. Have you tried living elsewhere? Sometimes a change of geography is all that's necessary.
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