How to overcome my boyfriend's past??

[andina]

Hello there!!!!!!!!!!!!!

 

My boyfriend and I are friends since highschool about 8 years ago, but we are together since 1 year ago, the thing is that he was with somebody else at school, then they had sex, they broke up, and then a baby came up, then after months thinking about it he told her to move with him for the baby, but then she cheated on him, it broke his heart (he says that mostly for his daughter) but all this thing is very annoying, in the first place because he has lived several things I don't (we are the same age), then I constantly think about this past relationship, about how much he loved her, if he loves me more than her, (he says everytime I'm the most important person in the worl to him, that he has never felt anything like before, that he wants to be with me all his life), and I dwell over and over about what makes her special that he wanted a child with her, (he says he felt so alone, that in his despare he needed someone, something to be attached to this woman, cause he thought he loved her, but now with me he realizes that wasn't real, that wasn't love) and I keep wondering if he still loves her, but it's eating me inside, I got jealous when he went to her house to see his daughter, so he stopped doing this (which is something that makes me feel continuously guilty), but still with all the things he says, and do for me, I feel jealous, unsecure, and I really need to stop this because he proposed to me, he's so charming, so loving and caring, it really seems he loves so much, and we are about to get marry....

 

Thank you so much for your advice, and your help, please know that I love him so much, and I really want to keep in this relationship, I want to move forward and be happy....

 

THANK YOU!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

[Oplimme]

My problem is probably insignificant to yours, but I feel the same way bout mine. I made a thread too, the first kiss thread it's around here on the first pg.

 

I'd like a "cure" too. But I dunno.